Life is always full of regrets, and no one can be perfect. Each person has a unique personality in different circumstances, and these personalities often reveal their individual flaws. It is through nuanced observation that we can understand a person more deeply.
In the history of the Three Kingdoms, Liu Bei is a well-known figure. His benevolence and importance to brotherhood are enough to touch the hearts of many people. However, like everyone, Liu Bei has flaws that cannot be ignored. His attitude towards love and women is a stark example.
When Zhang Fei left his sister-in-law and fled for his life, Liu Bei just said lightly: "Brothers are like siblings, and women are like clothes." The clothes are torn, but they can be sewn;Hand and foot broken, encore continued?This sentence became a mantra, from which we can get a glimpse of Liu Bei's indifference to love.
When Liu Bei was in Xuzhou, Lü Bu took refuge in him, and Liu Bei accepted Lü Bu out of benevolence and righteousness. However, Xiaopei was not a prosperous place that Lu Bu was used to Xi, and Lu Bu began to feel uncomfortable. As a result, Lu Bu colluded with his ill-intentioned subordinate Cao Bao and waited for the opportunity to retaliate against Zhang Fei. When Liu Bei went out, he told Zhang Fei to take good care of Xuzhou and not to get into trouble because of alcohol, but Zhang Fei ignored it. He indulged in wine and wanted to make a move on Cao Bao. Cao Bao finally found an opportunity and conspired with Lu Bu to attack Xuzhou. Zhang Fei was caught off guard and could only flee in a hurry, not even taking care of Liu Bei's sister-in-law.
When Liu Bei learned all this, he did not blame Zhang Fei, but said lightly the words that became a classic. Zhang Fei was grateful, but his act of leaving his sister-in-law and running for his life made Liu Bei's attitude towards love and women more obvious.
This is not the only example of Liu Bei's lack of attention to his wife. Guan Yu's thousands of miles of riding alone, and Zhao Yun's battle of Changbanpo all happened because of Liu Bei's negligence of his family. Even if he later married Sun Shangxiang, Liu Bei did not touch her for three years because he was worried that she would be unfavorable to him. All this shows that Liu Bei does not value love and women.