14 Days of Flash Marriage: Love and Choices in the Blind Date Era
In this day and age, everything seems to be accelerating. The traditional love model has been broken, and blind dates have become the choice of more and more people, and there are many examples of lifelong decisions in a short period of time. Recently, a Beijing woman decided to get engaged after 14 days of blind date, which has attracted widespread attention and discussion.
While many girls are still hesitating to find true love, this woman has chosen another way. She accepted the blind date, and went from strangeness to engagement with the other party in just ten days, without vigorous love, nor in-depth understanding of the bone marrow, just a simple fit and match. For her, it may be a relief, but for the outside world, it is a phenomenon worth pondering.
Netizens have mixed reviews about this. Some people believe that marriage is a major life event and cannot be so hasty;There are also people who feel that everyone has their own choices, and maybe this method is suitable for some people. In fact, with the acceleration of the pace of society, blind dates, flash marriages, and even flash divorces have become the choices of some people. Behind this is the complex mentality of modern people towards marriage and love.
We can't deny that some people are indeed able to find someone who is compatible with them in a short period of time and enter into a happy marriage. But at the same time, there are many people who fall into misfortune because of hasty decisions. Marriage is not child's play, it is about the future of two people, and even the fate of two families. Therefore, no matter what method you choose to enter into marriage, you need to be cautious and cautious.
On this issue, we cannot simply judge by right or wrong. Because everyone's situation is unique, everyone's choice has its reasons behind it. We need to understand and respect everyone's choices, and we also want everyone to take responsibility for their own decisions.
Back to the Beijing woman, she chose to get engaged to the other party in a short period of time. Perhaps for her, it was a relief, a response to stress. But there is still a long way to go, and what she needs to face is not only getting along with each other, but also having a dialogue with her own heart. Is she really ready to get married?Has she thought about her future life and responsibilities?These are all questions worth pondering.
In conclusion, whatever way we choose to enter into marriage, we need to take it seriously. Marriage is not child's play, it requires us to manage it with our hearts. In this ever-changing world, we need to find our own firmness and perseverance in order to truly find our own happiness. I hope everyone can find that person who is compatible with them and spend their lives together.