How much is the bride price there?
I, Xia Xiaohua, want to be a handsome guy back then, although he is deep in the grassroots mountainous area, his family is poor and white, but he didn't ask for a penny of dowry, and he married a good wife. If you have a wife like this, what more can a husband ask for!
However, in some places, there is still the phenomenon of bride price, and the work of changing customs has been promoted for so long, and there are still young couples who beat mandarin ducks and scattered because of the bride price problem.
Not long ago, the boy was asked for 280,000 8 dowry to write a letter to the county magistrate to ask for rectification rushed to the hot search, becoming one of the topics that netizens are most concerned about.
Some people think that they can't accept the bride price proposed by the other party, so they can break up. Some netizens suggested that he respect local customs. Some netizens believe that high bride price is a bad Xi, and marrying a daughter is not selling a daughter, and it should be rectified. Some netizens said that there is nothing wrong with the woman asking for a bride price, the situation is different from house to family, as long as the two families negotiate well, there is no problem.
If this is a selection interview question, I ask you, what do you think about the bride price phenomenon?How Would You Answer?
Refer to parsingExaminers:"Marriage between two surnames, one contract", marriage is the conclusion of the fate of two people and two families, which carries good wishes for the newlyweds, and is also a special moment of great significance in life.
For the phenomenon of bride price, we must resolutely say no.
On an emotional level,Marriage is not a sale, and feelings cannot be measured by money. Character comes first.
From an economic point of view,The bride price should be done according to one's ability, and the ** bride price that carries foreign debts in order to fight for face is infinite on the surface, but the tears are bitter behind it.
From a societal level,The bride price behavior of the whole family borrowing debts is suspected of deception, which is the fuse of family conflicts. The behavior of marrying with a clear price has further contributed to the bad atmosphere of "pomp and circumstance" and "arrogance".
**The bride price has been repeatedly bannedHere's why:
First, outdated ideological concepts and outdated Xi are perpetuated.
Second, the economic conditions are backward, and the psychology of comparison is strange.
Third, the cultural quality is not high, and the value concept is in the way.
Fourth, there are gender differences, and housewives are in a difficult position.
To "cool down" the bride price, it is necessary to treat both the symptoms and the root causes, and work for a long time.
First, change the ideology and stimulate the internal drive to change customs and customs. Establish a new style of marriage customs, and make good use of various incentive and restraint mechanisms such as "red and black lists" and "points supermarkets".
Second, economic development activates the source of freedom of marriage and love. Strengthen the governance of the marriage industry and accelerate the formulation of industry norms. Accelerate rural revitalization, promote county-level economic development, narrow the income gap between urban and rural areas, and improve residents' living standards.
Third, cultivate culture and stimulate the leading force of social fashion. Create a social atmosphere of equality between men and women and shared family responsibilities, return marriage customs to their origins, promote respect and commitment to love, loyalty and responsibility to the family, reduce the burden of love, and join hands for love.