"The three armies can win the commandery, but the horseman cannot win the ambition." —The Analects
Many people look forward to the state of life of having three wives and four concubines, who are like free and flowing clouds, wandering freely in the waves of love.
However, this is only an idealized assumption and is impossible to achieve in real life.
The famous Taiwanese actor Kou Shixun has achieved remarkable results in his acting career, but he is not commendable in terms of his love life.
He was married twice, similar to a wife and a concubine, and separated the two wives upstairs and downstairs.
is now 68 years old, and he still needs to run around to earn a living to support his wife and children, and netizens think that such a life is not enviable.
In his career, Kou Shixun has always been down-to-earth and steady. However, when he gradually became popular, he began to be a little flustered, and his attitude towards love became less decent.
At a social event, Kou Shixun met Xu Lidan, the person he liked, but at that time, Kou Shixun was already a person with a family and children.
However, Kou Shixun was immersed in love, didn't care about these things, completely disregarded the moral norms, and immediately got together with this bodybuilding lady, and finally even said that he wanted to marry Xu Lidan, a bodybuilding lady.
After all, the things in the paper can't be avoided, Kou Shixun has been with Xu Lidan for so long, he must explain to her.
Therefore, Kou Shixun has no choice but to confess to his wife, who tells her that he is in love with another woman, but does not want to divorce, hoping that she will understand.
Under normal circumstances, such an idea may have been condemned before it was proposed, but surprisingly, Kou Shixun's wife acquiesced.
Maybe the original wife didn't want to do this, but her husband insisted on doing so, what could she do.
Kou Shixun then took Xu Lidan home in public, and arranged for his first wife and the second wife to live on two floors, which is unbearable.
Although the two ladies did not say it explicitly on the surface, they also had a lot of open and secret fights in private, and they obviously couldn't live too peacefully.
It was his first wife who stayed with Kou Shixun for more time, not the second.
Cui Yaoqi is Kou Shixun's first wife, and the two can be called typical childhood sweethearts, because they have known each other since they were very young and are still neighbors.
Since I was a child, this younger sister has been sticking to me like a little heel and accompanying me as I grew up.
Even though the two have entered junior high school and attend different schools, their relationship has not weakened, but has become closer.
This relationship encompasses both family affection and friendship, which naturally translates into love in the process of development.
Their life after marriage is naturally extremely sweet, and Cui Yaoqi also successfully gave birth to a son and a daughter for Kou Shixun.
Cui Yaoqi undoubtedly has a prosperous appearance, Kou Shixun has always been a little transparent in the entertainment industry before, and because his appearance is not outstanding, there are few good resources inclined to him.
Even so, Cui Yaoqi has always been by Kou Shixun's side, never considering giving up, and silently supporting her husband's career.
Cui Yaoqi was initially convinced of this love, she firmly believed that her husband only had herself in his heart, and she thought that she was the happiest woman in the world.
As Kou Shixun's reputation grew, Cui Yaoqi found that her husband seemed to be drifting away from her, as he began to have his own independent social life and social interactions.
Cui Yaoqi and I no longer talk about everything as before, as if we are very good confidants, but each has its own social circle and career, so our relationship has undergone some subtle changes, and even gradually drifted apart.
Cui Yaoqi is an extremely restrained woman, when she encountered her husband's disguised cheating, she did not make a fuss like ordinary women, and even chose to divorce.
However, Cui Yaoqi silently accepted this fact. She made this choice partly because she did not have the huge wealth and power like Kou Shixun, and her life after leaving her husband would be extremely difficult.
Another reason is that they already have children, and divorce can have a profound impact on the children.
Moreover, once he leaves, he will usher in the arrival of his stepmother.
Therefore, Cui Yaoqi will not choose to divorce Kou Shixun, but acquiesces to Xu Lidan into the family, so that Kou Shixun can live a life of one wife and one concubine.
Therefore, despite facing two wives and a large family, the 68-year-old still needs to work constantly to make money.
Kou Shixun once said in front of ** that he didn't plan to marry two more wives in the next life, because he was too tired.
Kou Shixun is 68 years old and still has to work hard to make ends meet. As a typical powerful actor, he has worked hard for half his life and accumulated considerable wealth.
He invests all his income in his two wives, because each additional wife adds an additional expense.
Because of overwork and filming, Kou Shixun finally couldn't persevere, and collapsed on the bed unable to move.
At this time, the two wives still have a conscience, and they take care of their husbands separately.
Even if the relationship is not harmonious, when your husband is lying in a hospital bed, she must do some responsibilities as a wife.
Although the children's father is a famous actor, the family has been rich since childhood, and there are additional funds to support them in cultivating their hobbies and interests.
It is very unfortunate that such a child grows up in such a family.
Kou Shixun's eldest son once said that he had many younger siblings since he was a child, but they were not his own siblings. The father asked him to keep the matter a secret.
As a result, he also endured a lot of unchangeable pressure and helplessness, realizing that his father was not unique and belonged to someone else.
Since he was a child, he has seen his mother and so-called stepmother fighting each other everywhere, and the two get along with each other, which makes him even more troubled.
Although Kou Shixun's son has become a father and admits that his daughter is two years old, he still does not plan to enter into marriage in the face of a seven-year relationship with the child's mother.
He has witnessed his father's life since he was a child, although he has unlimited scenery on the outside and has two wives, but behind his back there is a sadness and helplessness that ordinary people have never imagined.
It is difficult to marry a lover, and it is easy to get a thousand gold treasures. It is not easy to meet in the vast sea of people, and this is already a great fate. However, God is destined that the arrangement will not be so smooth, and there will be all kinds of twists and turns.
Netizens have said that Kou Shixun chose this path, so he does not deserve sympathy at all.