The idea that "the doctor's mantra does not support children learning to dance" resonated with parents
In today's education system, more and more parents are beginning to pay attention to whether their children can be fully developed, and they are gradually realizing that their children's growth path is not limited to academics. Especially after the implementation of the double reduction policy, students are prohibited from participating in extracurricular make-up classes, and the pressure on students' academic Xi is reduced, and they can choose the development direction that is more in line with their interests and hobbies according to their personal circumstances, and their spare time has become more abundant. Parents are beginning to turn their attention to specialty training, expecting their children to reach their full potential.
In terms of cultivating children's interests, parents should be conscientious and responsible, and do not blindly follow the trend. Recently, Gu Ailing has attracted a lot of attention, and her mother has adopted a training model that is very worthy of reference. Gu Ailing showed her interest at the age of four, and her mother did not stop her, but encouraged her daughter to try.
Even when Gu Ailing was injured, her mother did not let her give up, but always gave encouragement mentally and spiritually, so that she cheered up and constantly challenged herself. At the same time, Gu Ailing's mother did not let her relax in cultural classes, and still put her studies first, followed by hobbies.
From primary school to university, Gu Ailing has always performed well, which is reminiscent of the term "other people's children". When she grew up, Gu Ailing not only loved sports, but also had a strong ability to learn Xi.
Many parents consider their children's Xi hobbies to be very important and are willing to invest a lot of money. Every year during the winter and summer vacations, they choose 2 or 3 specialties for their children, spending four or five thousand yuan. In order to ensure that their children do not lose at the starting line, parents have sent their children to special classes to learn Xi dance, piano, painting, etc.
At first, children may be a little rebellious and reluctant to follow their parents' arrangements, but as they gradually get used to it, they begin to accept it. Parents can be said to be generous in their children's hobbies, especially for girls, who hope that they can be good at dancing and singing, improve their temperament, stand out from the crowd, and show their strengths. However, one doctor admitted: "I don't send my child to dance." "The mother works in internal medicine because she has seen many children who have sprained due to improper dancing in her orthopaedic training.
Doctors say that dance is not for everyone, especially during the stage of bone development, and that the incorrect way of dancing can lead to long-term sequelae. Children are in the stage of rapid bone development, and if an accident occurs, it can cause irreparable damage. Therefore, the doctor insisted that he would not let his child learn dance, believing that the risk was relatively high, and many parents agreed.
Learning Xi dance is not something that can be completed in a few Xi practice, it requires long-term perseverance and cannot reach maturity in a short period of time. Parents should focus on what their children are really interested in, rather than thinking that an activity is good and then forcing them to do it.
The improvement of temperament is not only achieved by learning Xi dance, as long as you have a good cultural background and knowledge, your temperament will not be inferior to others. Students with real taste rely on cultural accomplishment rather than dance.
Every time I see a girl in the outpatient clinic who has injured or fractured her leg due to improper dancing, I feel very sad in my heart and can only advise my parents.
When choosing children's hobbies, parents need to pay attention to some misunderstandings. Many parents only see how many awards other children have won and ignore the efforts behind them. Once a child is enrolled in an interest class, they expect their child to win awards or honors, and rarely care whether they feel tired of learning to dance.
Many parents schedule interest classes on weekends, which is really fine in operation, but they ignore the parent-child time spent with their children. When children participate in interest classes one after another, learning to dance, sing, act, play the piano, etc., parents sometimes overlook the importance of accompanying their children.
The original intention of the double reduction policy is to allow children and parents to spend more time together, rather than allowing parents to send their children directly to interest training classes. The more content children learn Xi, they will naturally feel very tired, so that the cart is turned upside down, and the original intention of the double reduction policy has changed.
Many parents don't learn much when they are young, but when they tutor their children, they often impose their own ideas on their children. They want to fulfill in their children what they failed to achieve at the time, and if the child does not perform well, they will immediately criticize them.
Parents should grasp what their children really like, but they should not impose their own will on their children, especially when the children are not interested in a certain interest, it is not advisable for parents to force their children to learn Xi. As a parent, you should encourage your child, increase parent-child time, dig into what your child really likes, and cultivate it in an organized manner.
Today's topic is: Do you support your child to learn Xi dance?
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