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In some families, although the husband and wife have divorced, they still choose to live under the same roof, take care of the children together, support the elderly, and even still maintain the life of husband and wife.
Li Na's statement:
I didn't think my husband and I would get to where we are today, I had fantasized about our countless endings before marriage, but I just didn't expect it to be the end now, although we still live under the same roof, we are like roommates and strangers.
My husband and I met through a relative, his sister and mine had a very good relationship, and we both had just graduated from college at the time, and because of their relationship, they wanted to make us lovers.
In fact, our families are the right ones, my family is in business, although not rich, but also middle-class, his parents are both local civil servants and are leading cadres, my sister and his sister are colleagues in the Education Bureau, and they have been friends for many years, so I hope that our two families can have deeper exchanges.
Because of my sister, I had to meet him at the time, but after I met him, I found out that he was my ideal type, not to mention the personality, in terms of appearance he was the type I liked, and then we had a deeper contact, and as the time of contact increased, the two of us became lovers.
After more than a year of love, we also felt very suitable for each other, and the two of us entered the siege of marriage, when we first got married, we were very affectionate, and we cared about each other very much, until we had a child between us, because of the birth of the child, the quarrels between our husband and wife became more.
As the number of quarrels increased, the conflicts between us became more and more serious, until later we divorced because of a trivial matter, because we didn't want each other's families to become a silent talk in the eyes of everyone, and because the children were still young and needed to be raised by the two of us, so the two of us agreed to stay divorced after the divorce.
After that, we continued a long period of cold war, even if we went home, we would not take each other with each other, but we all made good excuses, just to not embarrass our parents and family, with the subsequent contact, we found that we have long been Xi to each other, even if there is no intersection, living under the same roof, there will be intersection, not to mention that we still have children.
Because of the children, the relationship between us is very delicate, although I regret the divorce in the first place, but I don't want to be the first to admit my mistakes, many times because of our stubbornness, we still maintain this state, but we still maintain a very affectionate relationship in front of some family gatherings and friends.
After a long time, I think it's ridiculous, in front of people like before, but the two of us are actually like roommates, I don't think this state should continue between us, because I think if it continues like this, the relationship between us as a couple will be washed away sooner or later.
Once after the child fell asleep, I took the initiative to order some takeout, and some wine, the two of us had a long talk, under the influence of alcohol, we apologized to each other, and finally cried and hugged each other, and then we were together again, and we also vowed that we would never file for divorce again because of a little conflict, because this is a very irresponsible situation, not only for the two of us, but also for our family and children.
Closing Remarks:
Most couples divorce and do not leave home, often because both parties choose to continue to live together for children, family, economic and other reasons, this relationship lacks real emotional communication, the two parties only take care of each other in life, but can not really understand each other mentally, the two parties may have conflicts and quarrels because of some trivial matters, but because of the reason of living together can not be completely separated.
Moreover, the husband and wife are in a state of divorce for a long time and do not leave home, which often leads to a lack of intimacy between the two parties, and often avoids physical contact for some reasons, or even has no married life, and this lack of relationship will not only affect the physical health of both parties, but also affect each other's physical needs.
Even in life there is a certain impact on children, but as parents can not ignore, children may feel uneasy and confused because of the relationship between parents, to some extent will also affect their growth and development, if children are in this environment for a long time, it may lead to their physical and mental health is seriously affected.
Couples are in a state of divorce for a long time, often involved in economic, family and other aspects, it is difficult to completely separate, even if both parties want to separate, it may not be possible to achieve it for various reasons, this relationship will not only affect the happiness and quality of life of both parties, but also have a lot of impact on both parties' work and social interaction.
To sum up, in fact, if the husband and wife can maintain the state of divorce without leaving home, then the husband and wife may be leaving each other a chance, finding the problem, and then solving it in a timely manner, which is the most important thing to do as a husband and wife, rather than behaving like a loving couple outside, but at home it is like a roommate;
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