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Writer Suzen has a passage:
"When I'm in the worst mood, I still eat on time, go to bed early and wake up early, and be self-disciplined as before.
Such a person is a person who can carry things. No matter how chaotic the personnel is, it can't disturb your heart.
People don't need to have so many extraordinariness, they are talented if they can carry things. ”
A person's greatest ability is to be able to withstand things.
A person's greatest reliability and maturity is actually that he is even in the worst, most anxious, and most painful situation.
can still maintain a kind of sobriety, achieve abandonment, still be able to go to bed early and get up early, and be self-disciplined.
In this way, we are still responsible for the present, and we are still soberly facing all the variables that may occur, so that we can truly move forward bravely.
To be a person and do things, only by being able to bear things, can we have a better future.
An ability to carry things
Being able to bear things is a kind of ability, and it is also a kind of maturity.
In reality, there are always some people who can't bear the problem because it is too easy to vent their emotions at will, and they treat some problems completely according to their personal emotions.
It is precisely because of this that no matter what kind of things you encounter, once you feel pressured, and then when you can't find a way out, you may give up on yourself at any time.
You have to understand that if you can't handle it yourself, life will never make you better, because you can't have enough ability to make life better.
Writer Yu Hua said:Among the younger generation in China, there are many outstanding people, but there are very few people who can handle things.
Everyone should be responsible for themselves, so that after entering the society, it is impossible to be light, and it is impossible to let yourself be at ease.
Because, there are always some ties, there are always some responsibilities, which will make you feel pressure, and you also need to really face and deal with it.
If you can't bear it, then there will be more and more troubles, and there will be more and more painful problems.
In this way, once a person falls into a kind of anxiety and feels very painful about a thousand things, then he will let his emotions lose control and fall into a state of mind of madness and collapse.
Then, even a small thing is like the last straw that breaks the camel's back, and it makes itself completely sinking, decadent, incompetent, and miserable.
Being able to bear things is always a compulsory course for a person to enter the society.
Those who can carry things go further
A truly mature person, in the face of problems and the torment of predicament, will become more and more calm, not confused, and calm.
Because those who are really good will definitely let themselves practice in things, no matter what they do, they will be able to calm down and gain insight into the overall situation.
At the same time, whether it is facing difficulties at work or dealing with interpersonal problems, it can really stay sober and not fall into a passive situation.
Life is very hard, life is difficult, but the more this is the case, the more we should let ourselves move forward, face problems and continue to live, we can only never stop and move forward positively.
In this way, after really working hard, you will become experienced, wise, and even more and more powerful, so that you can go further and further.
Hayao Miyazaki once said in "My Neighbor Totoro".
"After working hard, I realized many things, and I persevered and came over. ”
In this life, no one can be smooth sailing, it is impossible to be smooth sailing, and no one's life path will always be smooth and smooth.
Only by allowing yourself to continue to work hard, continue to grow, persevere, get through it, and be able to withstand things, can you have a better future.
For the rest of your life, the more you can carry, the more brilliant you are
Life has always been tortuous, and only by making yourself more and more resilient can you make yourself more and more poetic.
As Yang Lan said, happiness never falls from the sky, but grows from one's own heart.
A happy life must be supported by a corresponding price, and only by making yourself truly tenacious and strong enough.
Then, we can find a glimmer of hope in all kinds of predicaments, even from desperate situations, and show a trace of courage to climb out of the predicament.
In this way, you can make yourself more and more able to bear the process of things, cultivate your state of mind, and constantly strengthen yourself.
In the end, in the years of war and chaos, let yourself become more able to carry and more brilliant.