During the hit period of "Happy Dictionary", the host Xu Xiao won the love of the audience with his beautiful appearance and professionalism. But in the past few years, she has opted out of television and disappeared from public view. She was born in 1968 in a small county town in Sichuan, where her father was a journalist and her mother was an intellectual. Since he was a child, he has been favored by his parents and teachers, and has achieved excellent results in the college entrance examination and was successfully admitted to Sichuan University, majoring in economics.
After graduating from university, she became a reporter for the Sichuan Reform Times, where she met her tutor Lu Chenggong. The two felt that they hated seeing each other late, quickly fell in love, and finally entered the palace of marriage. However, the two faced some problems after marriage. Lu Chenggong felt that his work future was not optimistic, and decided to change his career to business, while Xu Xiao insisted on continuing to engage in hosting work. They agreed that if Lu Chenggong succeeded in business two years later, Xu Xiao would give up his career and become a housewife;On the contrary, Lu Chenggong will go to Beijing to become Xu Xiao's nanny.
Lu Chenggong's increasingly successful business career made him re-bring this "gambling contract", hoping that Xu Xiao would fulfill his promise and give up his job and return to his family. However, Xu Xiao was unwilling to give up his beloved career and rejected Lu Chenggong's request. In this way, the two finally chose to break up and ended their five-year marriage.
This incident has attracted widespread attention and discussion. The audience gave understanding and support to Xu Xiao's choice to adhere to her career, believing that she has the right to pursue her dreams and should not be restricted by gambling contracts. Xu Xiao's persistence has also been admired and praised by many fans, and she has become a model of women's independence and strength.
However, some netizens questioned Xu Xiao's choice, believing that she should pay more attention to her family and make some compromises in order to maintain the marriage relationship. But these voices did not affect Xu Xiao's image in the public mind as a whole.
The incident of Xu Xiao and Lu Chenggong breaking up due to gambling is similar to some similar incidents in society to a certain extent. In real life, many couples also have conflicts and disagreements because of each other's career pursuits, resulting in the final choice to break up or divorce.
In similar cases, some women choose to give up their careers and give more for their familiesAnd some women, like Xu Xiao, insist on pursuing their dreams and are unwilling to restrict their development for their families. These cases illustrate the choices and balances between career and family for many women in modern society.
Xu Xiao's persistence and choice have given many women the courage and confidence to pursue independence. She became a role model for women to have more choices between career and family without having to be confined to traditional role frameworks. This incident has sparked heated discussions in society on topics such as women's rights and gender equality.
At present, Xu Xiao has quit the TV industry and is living a rich and happy life. She married an outsider and lived a low-key life. Although they did not have children, her husband was very kind to her, taking care of the household chores and allowing her to live a comfortable life.
Xu Xiao's story shows the strength and courage of a woman to chase her dreams and insist on independence. Her choices inspire more women to pursue their careers without being limited by traditional social attitudes. Her experience has also made people reflect on the balance between husband and wife, career and family, and promoted the attention and progress of gender equality and women's rights and interests in society.
2.Have you ever faced a choice between career and family in your life?How do you make your decision?
3.Do you think there is still a bias in society's attitude towards women's career pursuits?What can be done to change this?
The above questions can lead readers to participate in discussions, share personal views and experiences, and promote broader social discussion and thinking.