Lu Yao wrote in the ordinary world: "Money is a good thing, it can make people no longer panic, and make people confident." ”
Money can make people live calmly and confidently, but when we don't have money, we will also be very troubled, because we are not satisfied with daily life, and often we are in trouble.
Financial hardship is common, however, it can create even greater challenges for women. As a result, many women become advantageous, complaining, and saving face for the sake of their lives.
In fact, a good life is a struggle, wealth is fair to everyone, as long as you can eat hard, you will also become a rich person, there is no need to distort your personality in exchange for all this.
Women, the years have engraved every wrinkle on your face, and they will also give you beauty because of your hard work.
Women, no money to struggle, and don't do it.
Love takes advantage
Women who have been short of money for a long time have a psychology of taking advantage of others, often competing with others for petty profits, and even full of calculations in their interactions with others, which often brings her some negative influences.
There is an eldest sister in the unit, her husband died in a car accident while driving a few years ago, and the family has no financial **, so this eldest sister came out to make money by herself, and she cleaned in the unit.
When it was time to clean, she would walk to the various offices. So, she has contact with every office employee. So, after a long time, everyone understood her situation, that is, they would give all the daily necessities and clothes they didn't want to this eldest sister. The eldest sister is also happy to accept these alms.
After a period of time, it was rumored in the unit that the eldest sister likes to take advantage of the **. Listening to others, other people's paper has not been used up, and it is asked to go by the eldest sister;Other people's towels haven't been used for a few days, and they are also asked by the eldest sister;And there are rumors that the eldest sister stole other people's money when there was no one in the office. The eldest sister denied this, but the company called up the monitoring, and the eldest sister was finally fired from the company.
It is human nature to love to take advantage, but always thinking about taking advantage is a matter of character. People are not stupid, in the face of people who love to take advantage of them, and people with problems with their character, they can only stay away in the end.
Liu Zhenyun said: "Never take advantage of others, in fact, the degree of intelligence between people is about the same, you take advantage of others, others actually know, just don't say it." A person has reached the point where he wants to take advantage of others, and it can be seen how inferior his ability has been. ”
Taking advantage is the most cost-losing thing in the world. There is no advantage in vain in the world, all cheapness is followed by a pit close to the abyss.
Cheap allows you to step on the footprints step by step, in fact, it is a lock in front of you, which can set out all your personality, capital, industry, etc.
A little cheapness seems to be a small profit, but it will cause a big disaster, and the gains outweigh the losses.
Love to complain
A woman who is short of money always complains, not only about her family, but also about outsiders. In her eyes, everyone is at fault, but she is not wrong. Over time, resentment will walk on her face, and her face will be full of sadness and no smile. When people see it, they want to avoid him.
There is a female boss of the chaos shop, there is no house, and the family of four lives in a rented small room of forty square meters. In order to make a living, she spent 2,000 yuan a month to rent a house and open a chaos shop, with few customers every day and no money. Life goes by.
Because of lack of money, she was in a bad mood and often complained about her family. It slowly became her Xi, and finally, in the chaos shop, she actually sent her resentment to the customer.
Some customers complained that Chaos gave less, and she said, everyone else is like this, and my quality is better than theirsThe customer complained about the saltiness, and she said that it was a problem of your taste, why didn't I eat it salty?
Because of the bad attitude, the customer was very angry, and over time, fewer and fewer people came to her to buy Chaos. Eventually, her Chaos Shop closed.
A woman who often complains about no money is not only lacking in funds, but also in a kind of inadequacy, she only has money in her heart, and she can't see the beauty beyond money.
For example, she can't see the beauty of human affection. There are many people who do not complain, even if they have no money, but will do their best to help others, not only to get praise from others, but also to get good feedback from others after doing good deeds. And the complaining woman is careful about the world, so she naturally can't get this.
Anyone's mouth is their own feng shui, your complaints will usher in the distrust of others, and your praise will also usher in the good feedback of others. It's all about your attitude towards money.
As a woman, a good view of money can make you, and a bad view of money can also destroy you.
Look at face
Women who lack money tend to have strong self-esteem, and they often hide their embarrassment in front of everyone because of the lack of money. And pretending to be rich in order to gain the respect of others.
In fact, people who are really good to you will not change their attitude towards you because you have money or not, and if you can be honest, they will respect you for it.
As Yishu said: "A truly temperamental woman never tells others what books she has read, where she has been, what clothes she has, or how much jewelry she has, because she is not inferior." ”
The real face is won by one's own strength. There is no shame in making money on your own, but it is a shame for those who save face for the sake of vanity.
There is an Aunt Zhang in her hometown, she and her husband are in their 60s, and their two sons are in their 40s. And he is unwilling to do the hard work, so he does not do his job, and does some things that deceive and deceive all day long.
However, Aunt Zhang loves face very much to outsiders, and never said that her family has no money, but that her two sons are capable, both of them are in business, and they can't spend the living expenses of their second elder every year.
When she met people, she said that her family was very mine, and her grandchildren were all studying abroad, ......
At this time, some people in the village said that if he really had money, why did everyone go to the city to rent a house for the winter, but he burned a kang at home to keep warm?
Living a safe and smooth life, as long as there is no shortage of food and clothing, there is no need to package yourself in order to make everyone respect themselves. Poverty cannot be concealed, and sometimes it can backfire and attract other people's jokes.
Women, don't care too much about other people's eyes, life is your own, as long as your requirements are not high, you can bear hardships and stand hard work, you can live well, but you need to put down.
Face is not the standard of life, but the honor of the heart is the standard of life.
04. Material deprivation is temporary, but spiritual deprivation is a lifelong thing. Some people say that marrying a wife is the right three generations of Wang, and marrying the wrong three generations of poor. A woman's thinking is really important and affects the lifeblood of a family.
Don't be a narrow-minded and short-sighted woman, but have a big heart, a big pattern, and a far-sighted vision.
Suffering cannot crush people, but the attitude of discouragement can overwhelm people.
Give yourself some comfort and relief, even if you have no money, don't take advantage, complain, love face, because this will only increase your troubles, and a person will live forever in his heart, and life will be as beautiful as a flower.
*Originated from the Internet invasion and deletion.