This is an era of looking at "appearance", and it is also an era of looking at the value of "words".
Communication is indispensable in each of our lives. As the old saying goes, "Kind words with people are warmer than cloth, and hurtful words are deeper than spears."
It is also true that words have power. It can not only hurt others, but also warm them.
That's why in life, we always say to "speak well". Indeed, speaking well is actually an ability. It's just that sometimes we can't do it.
yes!Many of us know how harmful language can be, but many times we overlook it. As someone said, the closer you are, the more you know what to say to hurt the person you love the most.
It is precisely because of this that we also need to learn to improve our "word" value in our lives.
Like, in life, why some people say very little, others sound comfortable. But some people say a lot, and others sound bored.
It's the difference in expression. The same sentence, different words get completely different results. It's like once reading a story.
It is said that there is a person who is entertaining guests, and seeing that most of the time has passed, and there are still people who have not come, he is very anxious. So he said: "What's the matter, the people who should come haven't come yet?"”
Some sensitive guests heard this and thought to themselves, "I shouldn't have come yet, so I shouldn't have come." So he made an excuse and left quietly.
At this time, the master became more anxious when he saw it, and said, "Why are all these people who shouldn't be leaving?" The guests who stayed behind listened: "Those who left should not go, so don't they just leave what they should go?"So they got up again and left ......
This story is actually telling us how important a word is in our lives. Sometimes a sentence can make a person succeed and it can also make a person fail
That's why we need to learn to speak well. Therefore, in life, we must not be open-mouthed, and we can say whatever we want.
Some words still have to be thought about before they can be said, instead of saying whatever they want regardless of any scene, which is likely to be a disaster for themselves.
Especially in this era, the anger between people seems to be very big, and a very small thing at this time often becomes a big thing because of a bad sentence.
It's like reading a book that I once said, "Maybe we don't think of the way we talk to each other is violent, but language does often cause pain for ourselves and others." ”
Prudence is not timid or fearful, but something we should know. Because many things in life are made up of small things.
Speaking is one of them, and sometimes speaking badly will also hinder us from success, because we are likely to scare away the "noble" in our lives because of our open-mouthedness.
Therefore, we must improve our 'word' value. Because sometimes just saying the wrong thing can change our lives, lose an opportunity, or even break up with our best friend.
Therefore, in life, we must develop to speak slowly, and not to say everything in a hurry. The more anxious we are, the more we have to be calm.
Because that's the only way we don't say the wrong thing. After all, many contradictions are often caused by just one sentence. So, a sentence that seems very light is actually very heavy.
It is precisely because of this that we should remember what to say and what not to say in life. Only by understanding this can we continue to improve our "word" value.
Text|Ming Fusheng.
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