In today's society, what is the most worrying and contradictory problem for us?There was a TV show investigation, and it turned out that everyone didn't want to work but had to work.
In the past, the teacher taught us how to work hard and how to succeed, and those celebrity biographies also talked about success, and the interesting thing is that whenever someone talks about how to succeed, they say, you have to do what you love, so that you can move forward and have a high chance of successWhen you look at the judges of those talent shows, you have to say this every time you arrange it. If you have a dream, you should do it, do what you love best. Nowadays, when someone asks me like this, many students will answer, "Teacher, I love to sleep, I don't want to do anything, and employees will say, "Boss, I don't want to go to work, I just want to stay, do you mean it?" But the contradiction lies in the fact that I don't want to go to work, I want to stay, but I have to work to survive.
Now the cost of work for young people is too great, their hometowns cannot provide so many jobs, and they do not have hundreds of millions of family assets to inherit. I can only leave my hometown and come to a strange big city, with a meager salary every month, and I have to rent a house, and the salary I may get is only enough to rent a place far away from the company, and I squeeze the bus and subway with the bustling ** every day. My face was squeezed against the glass and I couldn't move, and it took me more than 2 hours to commute every day. I have to work overtime every day, and I am tired like a dog when I get home. It's so unhappy.
So nowadays people are starting to get tired of going to work, but it's not okay to go up, and they have to support themselves. Let's not talk about hobbies, can hobbies be eaten as food? In the past, people were so good, they worked in their own city, and they could go home at noon to eat the food cooked by their parents.
There is such a young man in Hubei**, when he first became a teacher in school, he just felt that he couldn't feel a little interested in the endless work every day, so he resigned and returned to his rural hometown. chose to go home and lie flat, and he really lay flat and didn't do anything, but he soon sat down and ate empty, so what should I do, in the countryside, this neighbor's house stole some vegetable leaves, and that neighbor's house stole some melons. It's like this, and everyone in the village knows about it. I was hungry if I didn't steal it, and I starved to death in the back!I don't know if you can understand his behavior.
There is also an otaku in Japan, who has been staying at home for 27 years, and has never been out of the house, and rarely even goes out of his bedroom door, and there is no computer at home, which is like going to prison, and a person can stay at home to such a point.
Human beings were burrowing animals from the beginning, and there was no such thing as work at that time, just live, and work was a matter after civilization. You want to start a family, get married, buy a house, raise a baby, and provide for the elderly, the pressure is so overwhelming that you can't breathe, many people simply give up on themselves, I swiped a ** on Douyin, a delivery man earns enough 80 yuan a day to feel enough, because he doesn't get married, doesn't buy a house, and can't use up 80 yuan. Maybe for him, life is living. I don't have any special ambitions, and I don't want to do anything special.
This is a very common phenomenon in this society now, you don't want to work, your parents, elders say you have to set a big ambition, you have to have a goal, you have to be better than others, so you don't have a goalI don't think I know what my goals are. I don't like this job, I'm just getting paid for it. If I'm going to be better than others, I'm tired, I'm tired.
In fact, in the past, it was quite good, some children in small rural areas can enter this state by going to university, and live a 9-to-5, leisurely life every day, and now this opportunity is also very rare, you think about how high the education of young people is now, master's students are everywhere, and the salary is generally low, with the current salary, many people can't buy an apartment, they feel very anxious, anxious what to do in the future, what to do when they get married, or what to do when they are old, extreme anxiety He is likely to lie flat. So is this a social problem or a psychological problem?
So, if it were you, would you choose to lie flat or try hard?