One day in 2019, Xiaomei suddenly had unbearable stomach pain, and her parents quickly called an ambulance to carry her to the hospital.
"How many months pregnant? The doctor on duty asked, touching her belly.
Xiaomei said with some embarrassment
I'm not pregnant, I have polycystic ovarian syndrome, and I haven't conceived a child for 10 years. ”
Her family also echoed it, saying that Xiaomei was not pregnant at all, and that this hospital was not good, and shouted that she would go to other hospitals, but after the hospital did a B ultrasound examination, the emergency personnel told Xiaomei that she was about to give birth, and she and her family were dumbfounded.
Ten months pregnant, Xiaomei didn't even feel it? Such a careless mother, what the hell is going on?
Xiaomei's husband Dali is the eldest son in the family, and there is a younger brother who is 8 years younger than him.
Because she has no daughter, her mother-in-law swore that she would treat Xiaomei as her own daughter.
Xiaomei is 1.65 meters tall and 102 pounds, and her mother-in-law feels sorry for her and tries her best to cook something delicious for her. even specially called Xiaomei's mother for this reason and asked Xiaomei what she liked to eat.
His parents have long been envious of other people's families having grandchildren, and his mother-in-law often talks about bringing grandchildren, and all kinds of fancy urges take turns.
In the past year, there has still been no movement in Xiaomei's stomach.
Although her mother-in-law is a sensible person, her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law get along very well, and the whole family atmosphere is very harmonious, Xiaomei is still very distressed:
Why is it so difficult to get pregnant and have a baby?
During that time, Xiaomei and Dali focused on their careers in order to give their children better conditions, so even if Xiaomei didn't get pregnant for a year, everyone felt that it was okay.
After struggling for a few years, Dali's career has achieved a little, and the life at home is much more relaxed, Dali can't bear to see Xiaomei working so hard as an accountant, so he simply asked her to resign and recuperate at home to prepare for pregnancy.
The mother-in-law also agreed, she had long felt that her daughter-in-law was too tired from work and had no time to recuperate.
I used to order takeout at work, but now that I'm at home, my mother-in-law changes her tricks to make up for Xiaomei's body. watched Xiaomei's weight gradually increase, and her body slowly became round.
As a woman, Xiaomei naturally minded her weight, and said vigorously but happily: "Wife, you look much better now, not like you used to be weak." ”
Under the comfort of her husband, Xiaomei let go of her mustard about her weight.
However, one day, she went to take the subway, and as soon as she stepped into the carriage, a young man hurriedly stood up and gave her a seat. Xiaomei was confused, she didn't carry a heavy object and was not injured, why did she give up her seat?
On the other hand, the enthusiastic eldest sister also asked Xiaomei to sit down, and Xiaomei realized that she was regarded as a pregnant woman, and her face suddenly turned red and white.
This way was like sitting on pins and needles, she looked at her figure in the window opposite the carriage, and Xiaomei realized that she was indeed seriously out of shape.
When she got home, she insisted on **.
At the end of the day, Xiaomei proposed that she wanted to control her diet, and told her mother-in-law about the things on the subway.
The mother-in-law thought it was interesting, but she didn't approve of Xiaomei eating less.
In her opinion, how much to eat and grow fat, the body can produce resistance.
I still racked my brains to cook every day, just to let Xiaomei eat more, and my mother-in-law took this as her responsibility.
However, Xiaomei's stomach still didn't move.
In order to get pregnant, Xiaomei actively read a lot of books on pregnancy and childbirth, and also downloaded a bunch of maternity apps.
The family was full of expectations for the child, and finally one morning, Xiaomei retched while brushing her teeth.
The mother-in-law happened to hear it, excited and excited, staring at Xiaomei's belly as if she could directly see that there was a baby inside. Vigorously heard that Xiaomei was sharing her joy in **, so she asked for leave from the unit and took Xiaomei to the hospital.
Xiaomei went to the obstetrics and gynecology hospital to do various ** examinations, and when the report came out, she was more nervous than Xiaomei.
They have been waiting for it for so long, and they wonder if the baby is coming.
Finally waited for the test sheet, and the list was full of dense letters, but I didn't see the word "pregnant". Later, when I went to another hospital for examination, it turned out that Xiaomei only had chronic pharyngitis.
Although Dali didn't say anything, a strong sense of loss was already on his face. Although her mother-in-law was looking forward to Xiaomei's pregnancy, her mother-in-law did not blame her after knowing the situation, but comforted Xiaomei and told her to take medicine well and not delay**.
In October 2013, Xiaomei's menstrual period was delayed for a long time, and she vaguely felt that she might be pregnant.
It's Xiaomei's 27th birthday soon, is it a birthday gift from God?
Xiaomei excitedly took out the pregnancy test stick that she had prepared a long time ago and couldn't wait to test it.
Xiaomei wondered if the pregnancy test had expired, so she hurriedly went downstairs to buy a brand new box.
I tried it again in fright, but it was still a bar. Dali heard that his wife had an early pregnancy reaction, and he also felt that this time it might be true, after all, if it was an early pregnancy, the pregnancy test might not be detected.
So the two took leave and went to the hospital again, and after a series of examinations, the result was a big disappointment: "You are not pregnant, you are an endocrine disorder."
The doctor's words made Xiaomei's heart completely cold.
The next year, Xiaomei went to a class reunion, and an old classmate who hadn't seen her for a long time pointed her out a clear way.
"You can try tube baby. ”
After hearing the news, Xiaomei immediately went to the hospital for an examination.
However, after two consecutive failures, they were confused, and after thinking about it, the couple decided to try again.
But at this moment, Xiaomei felt that something was wrong with her body.
Before the menstrual period, Xiaomei felt a pain in her lower abdomen, and she couldn't sleep all night to run to the toilet"Polycystic ovary syndrome".
One of the clinical manifestations of this disease is infertility.
The mother-in-law felt sorry for her daughter-in-law, knowing that it was hopeless to hug her grandson and did not treat her harshly, she still cared about Xiaomei with cold and warmth.
In February 2019, they were married for ten years, but after the Spring Festival, they were sent abroad by the company, and it would take a year to leave.
On the other side, Xiaoli, the younger brother of Dali, reported the good news to his mother-in-law at this time, and his wife was pregnant.
The mother-in-law happily went to take care of the second daughter-in-law, and before leaving, she told Xiaomei to take care of herself and not to be hungry.
After ten years of eating and drinking with her mother-in-law, she suddenly wanted to live on her own, and Xiaomei was a little Xi unaccustomed to it for a while.
After her mother-in-law left, Xiaomei didn't eat well, and ate takeout without a match.
The strange thing is that I don't know if it's because of multiple cysts or if it's easy to get rich when I get older, Xiaomei feels that she doesn't eat as much as before, but she is getting fatter day by day.
In May, when the temperature rose, Xiaomei turned out her previous skirt and found that she couldn't fit it in, so she had no choice but to find a strong T-shirt to wear first.
Because she didn't eat well, she was also very haggard, and she was dizzy from time to time, Xiaomei's parents were worried about her and came from Anhui to take care of her, but Xiaomei's state did not improve.
In addition to gaining weight, he also has a lot of spots on his face and frequent urination at night. For half a year, her parents persuaded Xiaomei to go for a physical examination many times, but they were all refused.
In order to have a child, she has been running to the hospital for so many years, and she is physically and mentally exhausted, and she is no longer interested in going to the hospital.
As a result, on November 5, 2019, a sudden sharp pain caught Xiaomei off guard.
The pain in my abdomen came and went, and at first it was bearable, but it gradually became more painful and I couldn't hold it anymore and screamed.
The parents called 120, and the family rushed to the hospital in a hurry.
The results of the examination made Xiaomei's jaw drop in shock, "You are pregnant to term, and you are about to give birth." ”
Doctor, you read that right, I can't get pregnant, I'm polycystic? ”
Surprise fell from the sky, and Xiaomei felt like she was hallucinating for a moment.
At 21:44, a loud baby cry came from the delivery room, breaking the tension inside and outside the delivery room.
Xiaomei finally fulfilled her wish to be a mother.
Xiaomei didn't feel the hard work of being pregnant for ten months, maybe this is the baby's thoughtfulness to her mother.
Many things are forced, you need to take your time, you need to be moderate, and too much is not enough.
Moreover, everything in the world is not something that can be pursued if you want to.
There is a saying: if you are blessed, you don't need to be busy, and if you are not blessed, you will have a surprise, that is, some things will have surprises unintentionally, and you don't have to deliberately force them
May everyone learn to adjust their mentality, release and relieve stress, relax their minds, be kind to themselves, work happily, and live every day happily.
And Xiaomei's lucky woman can meet such a reasonable mother-in-law and such a considerate husband, maybe it is God's favor for the family.