My son took the top 50 in the school in the midterm exam, and when he got home the night the results came out, he added his beloved fitness equipment to the shopping cart non-stop, urging me to hurry up and place an order to buy, I saw that the total price was more than 600 yuan, and I didn't want to buy it, my son got angry when he knew, saying that his mother's words didn't count.
The child has been obsessed with buying fitness equipment since the beginning of the year, and all kinds of fitness equipment at home have been piled up in the bay window of his room, and the space in the room is also full, but he still wants to buy it, and the last Singles' Day event, he wanted me to buy it, I asked him how much it was, and he said that it was about a few hundred yuan.
I didn't promise him right away, but told him that you didn't do well in the last monthly exam, and with your strength, you shouldn't score so much, if you can get the top 50 in the school in the midterm exam next month, I'll buy it for you.
Maybe the child really wants to, or is really dissatisfied with his grades, he worked very hard in November, and after the midterm exam, he told me that he had answered the right answer with the teacher, and he should be able to enter the top 50.
I said so confident, then mom will buy you fitness equipment now, but the child said, let's wait for the results to come out, I want to get it with strength.
In fact, seeing the child Xi study so hard, I already plan to buy it for him if I can't get into the top 50, just as a reward for him, the results came out a few days later, the teacher didn't announce it, and the A+ Xi can't be seen in it, but the teacher has a grade**, and after going to school in the morning, I hit ** to urge me to verify with the teacher, I said that you will definitely know the result when you come back at night, don't be so anxious.
Sure enough, I came back in the evening and was elated, saying that I had taken the exam for 47 in the school, and I didn't care about eating, so I picked up my mobile phone and picked up his favorite fitness equipment, all added to the shopping cart, I was stunned when I saw the total price, and asked for more than 600 yuan, and I wanted to regret not buying it for him, after all, there are too many places to use money at home now, if I don't buy it, I guess the child can't do it.
I said tentatively, why don't you buy it for you next time you do an event, you can save a lot of money, the child was immediately unhappy when he heard it, saying that what his mother said doesn't count, you didn't want to buy it for me when you did an activity last time, and now I don't buy it for me if I get good grades in the exam, and I don't know when there will be an event I have to wait so long.
I saw that the child's reaction was so intense, and I felt that it was better not to discourage his enthusiasm too much, so I said that if I bought it a day, I could also save dozens of dollars to buy snacks, anyway, I would definitely be able to get it before his monthly vacation, and the child agreed after listening.
Promise your child's business, or do what you say, otherwise once the trust is broken, it will be difficult to maintain the relationship, not only in the parent-child relationship, but also in other times.
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