Ever since Seaweed was bumped into by Xiaobei and had a private date with Song Siming, she swore to Xiaobei and cut off all contact with Song Siming. However, when Becky finds out that the two of them are preparing to get married, he realizes that Seaweed has not fulfilled her vows. He cut his heart like a knife, and said to Seaweed in pain: "Let's break up." In a relationship between two people, love alone is not enough, trust is more important than love. After hearing this, Seaweed did not shed a single tear. She seemed to anticipate the day, but she just didn't expect to experience it this way. She calmly told Xiaobei: "I didn't take the initiative to see him, nor did I do anything to be sorry for you."
If you want to break up, you can, but please don't accuse me for no reason. Becky began to realize that the seaweed had been waiting for this day to come. She has met with Song Siming many times in private, but she can still claim so confidently that she did not betray him?Becky is angry and disgusted, and he really wants to teach Seaweed a hard lesson and make her understand what loyalty is. However, he never made a move, because he never bullied women.
Xiaobei decisively moved out of the rental house, and Seaweed couldn't wait to find Song Siming. She fantasized about her future with Song Siming with longing, and secretly rejoiced that she had left Xiaobei. Unbeknownst to her, however, she was pushing herself into an abyss from which she could not extricate herself. Through seaweed's choices again and again, I gradually saw her essence. She gradually degenerates from an innocent girl, and many secrets are hidden in it.
For a mere 60,000 yuan, Seaweed actually promised Song Siming with his body. At that time, Seaweed and Xiaobei were colleagues in the same company, and the relationship between the two was just starting, so Seaweed decided to move out and live with Xiaobei. In a big city like Shanghai, the cost of renting two rooms is too high. So, they decided to share a house and use the saved rent to improve their lives. Becky is very diligent, preparing a hearty meal for seaweed every day after work, and even picking out shredded meat and putting it in her bowl. Seaweed enjoys Becky's meticulous care, and she thinks that their love is indestructible and can grow old until they are old.
However, when her sister Haiping needed 60,000 yuan to buy a house, Haizao realized how fragile love was in the face of reality. Xiaobei had exactly 60,000 yuan in his hand, and Seaweed decided to lend the money to his sister to buy a house. However, she didn't expect Becky to refuse. When Xiaobei refused, Seaweed roared angrily: "Do you dare to disagree with this situation?"I'm not here to ask for your opinion right now, I'm here to get the money directly. "From this moment on, the mindset of Seaweed changed dramatically. She began to have resentment and dissatisfaction with Xiaobei, and at the same time developed a deep helplessness and despair towards reality. In the end, she chose to betray Xiaobei and be with Song Siming. The following is a re-creation of the original text:
If you agree, just go along with the boat and do it a favor. If you don't agree, then I owe you, and I'll do my best to pay it back later. I'm betting my personality on you, you know, my mom raised me so big, I'm still working, it's worth the money, right?Xiaobei hesitated, because it was something he had saved so hard and originally planned to use to marry Seaweed. Haiping and Su Chun's income is not high, and if they lend them money, they don't know when they will be able to pay it back.
Xiaobei is worried that he and Seaweed have reached the stage of talking about marriage, if there is no money, what if at the critical moment of marriage, Seaweed dislikes him and has no money to buy a house and is unwilling to marry him?Xiaobei comforted Seaweed, it was not that he didn't want to help, but that he was really in difficulty. Haiping is already married, she has her own life, and the couple should face difficulties together. Seaweed, as a younger sister, should not meddle in her sister's housework. She should think more about the future of herself and Xiaobei and plan for their family.
They will have their own children in the future, and there are many places where they need to use money. If he lends money to Haiping, what will they do if they encounter difficulties in the future?However, Seaweed couldn't listen to Becky's persuasion, and she felt that Becky had become a stranger. Before, Xiaobei swore that "what is mine is yours", but now that she needs help, he has become stingy. Haiping is her own sister, and she can't stand by watching her sister suffer and be indifferent.
Seaweed was sad because of the money, and Song Siming knew about it. Without saying a word, he gave Seaweed 60,000 cash and told her that she didn't have to rush to pay it back. Seaweed was stunned, she and Song Siming had only met a few times, Song Si helped her so generously, and Xiaobei had shared the bed with her for so long, and she didn't even want to take out 60,000. Seaweed begins to re-examine her relationship with Becky.
She foresaw the future of herself and Xiaobei from Haiping and Su Chun. Haiping quarreled with Su Chun for the house, and in order to save money, she could only eat clear soup and noodles every day. She hasn't married Xiaobei yet, because of 60,000 yuan, she is afraid that if she marries Xiaobei, she will make more trouble because of these trivial things. Seaweed once said to Xiaobei that the 60,000 yuan was the price she promised to Xiaobei, and it was her salary as a cow and a horse in Xiaobei's house. Since Xiaobei refused to borrow it, Seaweed could only return this kindness to Song Siming.
When Song Siming invited her to the villa, Seaweed did not refuse. Some people believe that the seaweed has come to this point because Xiaobei is too selfish. But in my opinion, seaweed is not as simple as we think. In order to fund Haiping's 60,000 yuan, she chose to promise Xiaobei with her body. However, she didn't realize that such behavior is actually unprincipled and bottom-line.
Life is always full of ups and downs, and no one can be smooth sailing. If Xiaobei helps Haiping this time, but the next time Haiping encounters difficulties, Xiaobei can no longer help, will Haizao still choose to promise to others?Xiaobei knows that his ability is limited, and he understands that even if he generously helps Haiping this time, Haiping will still do their best to help when Haiping encounters difficulties again in the future. However, he has his own life and plans, and he loves seaweed dearly, so he must make wise decisions for the sake of their future family.
Haiping's life is her own choice, and she must bear the pain and stress that comes with it. Money does not change human nature, on the contrary, it just makes it easier to expose human nature. Haiping didn't understand Xiaobei's thoughts, and she didn't bother to understand. And seaweed in front of money, for 60,000 yuan, he can easily promise Song Siming a personal promise. If she marries Becky, she may still choose to betray when she encounters difficulties that Becky can't solve. Because in front of money, she has shown her truest side.
Once, Seaweed was young and ignorant, believing that love was more important than material things. However, as Haiping and Su Chun continue to quarrel over daily trivialities, Seaweed begins to awaken, and she is no longer satisfied with a life of love. She began to feel that love without a material foundation was empty. She seems to value family affection, but in fact she is lazy and wants to find a shortcut with her young and beautiful body.
A person's bottom line is his reassuring quality. With a bottom line, he is trustworthy;With a bottom line, he can gain the trust of others. Song Siming's generosity to Seaweed only accelerated her betrayal of Xiaobei. If it weren't for Song Siming, Seaweed and Xiaobei might not have made it to the end. But we must be clear that if Xiaobei fails to give Seaweed a clear future and plan, even without the appearance of Song Siming, there will be other similar situations that will cause them to not be able to come together in the end. , maintaining the meaning of the original text, while undergoing a complete rewriting in terms of language, structure, and style
It was only a matter of time before Seaweed lost herself, both physically and spiritually, because she was by nature. At first, when she was with Song Siming, she would feel guilty about Xiaobei. However, as time went on, she became more and more straightforward and even began to enjoy the feeling of moving between two men. Xiaobei's bottom line and principles are so low, do you still expect her to spend the wind and rain with Xiaobei and make Xiaobei trust her?
Song Siming once brilliantly pointed out: Xiaobei is reluctant to borrow money, which is understandable, because he can't afford to lose. People are generous because they have enough to spend extravagantly. If Xiaobei only has a candy in his hand, but he wants to give it to Haiping, he is naturally unwilling. Therefore, the choice not to borrow money is completely understandable. Siblings should support each other, but they also need to do what they can. However, Seaweed never put herself in Becky's shoes, or more accurately, she never planned her future with Becky.
On both a physical and spiritual level, seaweed loses itself. During the days of living with Xiaobei, they often moved and took a fancy to many beautiful clothes and bags, but because of financial constraints, they could only admire them from afar. Whenever Seaweed celebrates her birthday, she is only willing to buy a cake for 2 yuan and 8 jiao. When she saw a 25 yuan ice cream, she drooled, but when she thought of Xiaobei's frugality in order to buy a house, she couldn't bear to be extravagant.
Seaweed's days with Becky were full of frugality and hardship. However, Song Siming's appearance has opened up a whole new world for seaweed. He takes her into fancy restaurants to taste the delicacies that only the rich can enjoy. In addition, Song Siming also gave her a card so that she could shop at will. Before, the waitress would look at her strangely and think she couldn't afford it, but now she can proudly let the waiters who look down on her pack all the clothes she likes, and then leave in their envious, jealous eyes.
The days with Song Siming greatly satisfied Seaweed's vanity. In addition to financial satisfaction, Song Siming also gave Seaweed unprecedented respect and love. Business trips, overtime, these original drudgeries, with Song Siming's help, became easy. He saw through the suffering of the world, and used his wisdom and means to solve the problems in the life of seaweed.
Seaweed was troubled while on a business trip, and Song Siming appeared at a critical moment, not only solving her problem, but also overjoying the boss. His care and help for seaweed made seaweed more dependent on him.
In the face of Haiping's predicament, Song Siming also showed his wisdom. He gave Haiping an idea so that she could rest at home for two months and get a subsidy. Seaweed excitedly begged him to carry out the plan, believing in Song Siming's strength and influence.
Song Siming's omnipotence fascinates Seaweed deeply, and his every action is full of strength and wisdom. The way he handles problems amazes Seazao, who appreciates his intelligence and great abilities.
Seaweed was amazed by his familiarity with the route as he drove, and his calmness and sanity put her at ease. His way of thinking is always so unfathomable that Seaweed always wants to explore his inner world.
Even though Seaweed knows that her relationship with Song Siming won't come to fruition, she still can't resist his attraction. She enjoyed her time with him, but at the same time felt her inner contradictions and struggles. She knew she had to make a choice, but she couldn't let go of her feelings for Song Siming.
Human greed and vanity are universal, but they are also a source of motivation for many. This kind of motivation can make or break a person. Between achievement and destruction, people have to make their own choice. For Seaweed, her choice was fraught with challenges and uncertainties. She never forgot Song Siming's romantic feelings, and her heart wavered. However, paper can't contain fire after all, and the secret of Seaweed and Song Siming was discovered by Xiaobei. Seaweed enjoyed the convenience brought by Song Siming, but also paid the price.
Seaweed and Becky's relationship cracked, and they eventually broke up. Seaweed bears the consequences alone, feeling deep remorse and remorse. When she and Song Siming left the villa together, they happened to meet Xiaobei standing at the door. Becky's eyes were full of pain and disappointment, which made Seaweed's heart ache.
After waiting for the night in the rental room, Seaweed sees Becky return to her residence in despair. At that moment, Seaweed felt deeply guilty and blamed herself, and she knew that she was sorry for Becky. However, to her surprise, Xiaobei did not propose to break up, but hugged her tightly and begged her not to leave.
Seaweed agreed to start over with Becky, and she was determined not to have any contact with Song Siming again. However, the wound in Becky's heart has not yet healed, and he needs time to heal. Seaweed tries to stay by his side, trying to regain the beauty of the past, but Xiaobei's heart is still full of haze, losing the joy and passion of the past.
In order to help Becky out of her predicament, Seaweed decides to quit her job and move. On the day she went through the resignation procedures, she unexpectedly met Song Siming. With tears streaming down her eyes, she told him about her plight and told him that she was about to marry Becky. She hoped that Song Siming could keep her, but he only sent a short text message: "Seaweed, don't get married." ”
Seaweed longs for Song Siming's promise, but in the end she chooses Xiaobei. If it weren't for Xiaobei discovering that text message, maybe her story with Song Siming would have had a different ending. However, the arrangement of fate made Xiaobei her home.
For Seaweed, marrying Becky was not a choice in her heart. Therefore, when Xiaobei proposed to break up, she felt relieved. She told Xiaobei: "Xiaobei, I have been waiting for you to propose to break up. I know you were reluctant to part with me before because you weren't used to losing me. One day, when you have the courage to leave me, I will be able to leave with peace of mind. "Seaweed believes that love at first sight is only a superficial attraction, and that love over time is just a matter of habit.
She firmly believes that in this world, there is no one who cannot leave anyone, and time will hurt everything. She realizes that Xiaobei is not inseparable from her, but he is not brave enough to end the relationship. In this relationship, she admits that she owes something to Xiaobei, and she doesn't even have the courage to propose a breakup. Therefore, she was waiting for Xiaobei to say this, so that she could leave with peace of mind and comfort herself: It was you who broke up, not me.
When Xiaobei really said this, Seaweed did not hesitate and immediately threw herself into Song Siming's arms. In order to please Song Siming, she began to learn cooking and cleaning. These were all things that Xiaobei did for her before, but now she knows that the original meat should be cut along the texture of the meat, the fish should be selected fresh, and the dishes and chopsticks should be brushed with gloves. However, in order to capture Song Siming's heart, she is willing to do this.
From how much Seaweed is interested in Song Siming, I know that Seaweed has never loved Xiaobei. She is with Xiaobei, just because Xiaobei loves her and treats her well, so that she can enjoy the taste of being loved by people from a poor background. When she met Song Siming, Seaweed was no longer satisfied with Xiaobei's goodness, and her vanity began to sprout and swell, so she turned around without hesitation and chose Song Siming.
Seaweed is selfish and selfish in her relationship, she never cares about Xiaobei's feelings, and comes and goes when she calls him. Whoever is good to her, she loves whom, and whoever has no use value, she kicks it away. Xiaobei is just a transitional stage for seaweed to ride a donkey and find a horse. Even if there is no Song Siming, once Seaweed meets a suitor who is better than Xiaobei, she will still abandon Xiaobei.
After Seaweed became pregnant, Song Siming was very excited. Seaweed mothers are expensive with their children, live in large houses, and enjoy luxurious treatment. However, the good times were short-lived. Song Siming was investigated for *** and could not continue to be by her side. Seaweed, who has a pregnant belly, walks alone on the street, and accidentally meets Xiaobei and a girl who looks like her. She was shocked to find that in just half a year, Xiaobei already had a newcomer around her.
At this moment, seaweed has mixed tastes in his heart. She realizes that she has lost the boy who once loved her dearly. Her heart was like a knife, and tears flowed uncontrollably. Perhaps in this relationship, she never really cherished Xiaobei's love. Now that I have lost him, I realize what I have missed. It's a pity that time can't be turned back, and she can only bear this pain and regret silently. At the crossroads of life, no one can foresee the future.
Song Siming's sudden death in a car accident has made Seaweed's dream come to naught, and she can no longer realize the future she wants. And the dispute with Mrs. Song, which led to a miscarriage of seaweed and the loss of her uterus, was a heavy price she paid for the choice she once had. There is a famous quote from Harry Potter that the path of life does not depend on your ability, but on the choices you make. Whenever we make a choice, we have to face and bear the consequences of that choice. The story of seaweed is perhaps the best commentary on this sentence.