My name is Zhuang Juan and I am 38 years old. It's been 5 years since my ex-husband and I divorced, and we basically don't get in touch except for the children.
My ex-husband Wang Ming and I were college classmates, and after graduating from college, we rented a house together.
At that time, we were both very poor, and my parents felt sorry for me, so they transferred 5,000 yuan to me, but after paying the rent, there was not much left.
Sometimes we couldn't even pay the utility bills, and most of the time we ate instant noodles to get by, until Wang Ming was promoted, and our living conditions gradually improved, and after having some savings, we got married and took out a loan to buy a house.
When he got married, he said to me with tears in his eyes: "Wife, I will definitely let you live a good life." ”
It is this sentence that has become the support and motivation for me after marriage.
The arrival of the child has changed the relationship between me and Wang Ming.
Because raising a child costs a lot of money, and I quit my job to take care of the child at that time, Wang Ming is the only one in the family who earns money, and he is very stressed.
But I also have a hard time at home, the child is always crying, and I haven't had a good night's sleep since the child was born.
I said to Wang Ming: "Can you help me share a little, I have a hard time taking care of the children alone." ”
But Wang Ming replied impatiently: "Do you think I'm easy?."I work overtime in the company every day, am I not tired?”
Hearing him say this, I was very angry, and I replied: "Then let me go out to work, you stay at home and take care of the children." ”
Wang Ming said disdainfully: "How much money can you earn?"”
Seeing me crying, Wang Ming not only did not comfort me, but also said: "Why are you crying again, can you let me sleep well?"”
After speaking, Wang Ming went to the bedroom and slammed the door.
I didn't sleep all night, and the next morning I told him about the divorce, and they all said that poor couples mourn everything, and this time I always experienced it.
I thought Wang Ming would be very angry about my divorce, but he said very flatly: "Okay, take the household registration book." ”
In this way, Wang Ming and I divorced.
The people around me persuaded me to find another one, but in order not to let my son be wronged, I still chose one person.
I am usually busy with work and rarely take care of my son, who lives on campus.
Last week, the child got sick and went to the hospital, but the teacher called me to pick up the child.
On the way to the hospital with my child, I thought a lot by myself, and I have never been so helpless in the long time since I divorced.
After the child entered the ward, I was alone in the hospital corridor hugging my head and crying.
After Wang Ming learned about this, he also hurriedly came to the hospital to see his son.
The first thing he said when he saw me was, "How's it going, are you alright?"What about the son?”
I motioned for him to come into the ward to see my son, and I sat alone on a stool in the hospital hallway.
For a moment, I was scared and thought, "If something happens to my son, how can I live?" Thinking of this, I couldn't help but bow my head.
Perhaps I was too tired during this time, so I fell asleep on the sofa in the hospital corridor, and when I woke up, Wang Ming sat quietly next to me and covered me with a quilt.
I was still quite surprised that Wang Ming had such a move, we looked at each other, but we didn't say a word.
I noticed something on his right hand, and my heart chuckled.
This is our wedding ring, but I didn't expect that after five years of divorce, he still wears it on his hand.
I asked, apprehensively, "Do you always carry it?"”
Wang Ming nodded obediently.
Wang Ming hasn't remarried for so many years, in fact, I know that he cares about our relationship, and now for the sake of the child, he is busy before and after, which also touches my heart.
Now that I think about it, we shouldn't be as impulsive as we were when we encounter problems, otherwise we wouldn't have caused the situation we have today.
After the divorce, Wang Ming has also been apologizing with actions, shouting at me, and helping me a lot.
Thinking of this, I couldn't hold back anymore and hugged Wang Ming directly.
Wang Ming was shocked by my behavior, but he didn't push me away, but hugged me tighter.
In this way, we didn't say anything and quietly hugged each other for a few minutes, and at that moment, I felt that the feeling of love between us was back.
After hesitating for a few minutes, I said to Wang Ming: "It's been so long since I divorced, I have figured it out a lot, I also had a willful place at the beginning, I know that you still care about us, for the sake of the children, let's remarry." ”
He said to me with a hint of choked voice: "Actually, I have always worn the ring on my hand, I am afraid that you will be too careful, sometimes I take it off when I see you, and I was in too much hurry when I came here today, and I didn't have time to take it off." Actually, I've always missed you. ”
Wang Ming's words made the stone in my heart completely let go, and I took this opportunity to get back together.
In the face of our remarriage, many friends do not understand.
After all, Wang Ming and I have been separated for 5 years, and the relationship between the two has been worn out by time, and many people feel that we chose to remarry for the sake of our children, just because we made do.
In the face of other people's doubts, I have never explained, because life is our own life.
What will happen in the future, the two of us still need to work together.
After going through so much, I believe that we will all become more mature with each other.
In the days to come, we will cherish our feelings more, and we hope that we can set a good example for our children and create a happy family for our children.