Children are the hope of the family and the most valuable asset of parents. However, because of my ignorance and luck, I did not recognize my son's psychological problems in time, which led to him eventually falling into mental illness. Through my own blood lessons, I hope to arouse the vigilance of other parents, use my personal experience to share some issues that need to be paid attention to in the process of children's growth, and hope to give other parents some inspiration and thinking.
Left-behind children refer to children who have been separated from their parents for a long time and live in rural areas due to their parents going out to work. These children grow up without the companionship and love of their parents and are very psychologically vulnerable. They face problems such as loneliness, helplessness, and low self-esteem, and it is difficult for them to receive timely care and guidance. Therefore, as parents, we should try to avoid letting our children become left-behind children, or if we can't avoid it, we should find ways to give them more attention and love to help them build good mental health.
The mental health of left-behind children is a long-standing social problem. As they grow up, the lack of parental companionship and love makes their mental health vulnerable. In the family, parents are the most important support for children, and play a vital role in their development. However, due to financial pressures and limited job opportunities, many parents have to leave their hometowns to work in other cities. In this way, the separation time between them and the child will be greatly prolonged, resulting in the child's psychological emptiness and sense of absence. In rural areas, grandparents are often responsible for taking care of left-behind children, but their education level is low, and in many cases, they can only meet the children's living needs, and do not pay enough attention to the children's psychological growth. This kind of long-term poor psychological counseling can easily lead to personality problems and mental health disorders in children. Therefore, we parents should always pay attention to the inner world of our children, communicate and communicate with our children, and give them more care and understanding.
Today's children are becoming more and more addicted to mobile games, which has a negative impact on their physical and mental health. As parents, we must always be vigilant and intervene in our children's mobile game use in a timely manner to ensure their normal life and Xi.
The popularity of mobile games has made it easier for children to indulge in them. Games that are full of excitement, entertainment, and all kinds of satisfaction can easily get kids addicted and lose sight of the importance of real life. When children become addicted to mobile games, it not only has a negative impact on their Xi and social interactions, but also changes their personality and behavior. For example, in my family's case, my son's over-addiction to mobile games caused him to change significantly in his psyche, and he became irritable, paranoid, and in conflict with his family. This has to do with the stimuli and mood changes he receives in the game. Therefore, parents should always pay attention to their children's mobile phone usage, arrange their game time reasonably, and at the same time give them more care and companionship, guide them to actively participate in other activities, cultivate a variety of interests and hobbies, and improve their overall quality.
School violence is a serious problem that can seriously affect children's mental health and Xi performance. As parents, we should pay close attention to our children's performance and communication at school, detect and deal with school violence in a timely manner, and protect our children's rights and safety.
The existence of school violence has a great impact on children's mental health and Xi. In my story, my son was once bullied by his peers and took a lot of damage to his self-esteem and self-confidence. He was bullied and besieged many times, and the school's handling was unfair, which led him to become suspicious and disgusted with the school and teachers, and he was no longer willing to go to school, and even suspended from school. School violence is a problem that the whole society should pay attention to, and parents should establish a good communication channel with their children, encourage them to take the initiative to communicate with parents, and keep abreast of their children's situation at school. At the same time, parents should also work closely with the school to solve the problem of school violence and provide a safe and harmonious Xi environment.
Through this bloody lesson, I deeply realized that as parents, we need to pay attention to our children's mental health at all times, and give them enough love and care. We can't afford to neglect our children's growth and needs because of work, financial pressure, or other reasons. At the same time, we should also be wary of the negative effects of children's addiction to mobile games and school violence. Only by protecting children's mental and physical and mental health can they grow up healthy and happy and make positive contributions to themselves and society. Let's work together to create a warm, caring environment for our children's growth.