Each of us may encounter a flip-around situation in our lives, whether in friendship, family affection, or love. "Remember, the person you turn your face with will never be your friend again. No matter what the relationship between this person and you is, once they turn their faces with you, it means that you are no longer all the way, no matter how good the relationship is, it is impossible to go back to the past, let alone become your real friends. Especially the thing of the predecessor seeking to get back together, it takes a lot of wisdom to eat. This is a thought-provoking phrase that makes us understand that turning the other cheek often means the end of a friendship, and that is especially true when an ex seeks to get back together.
1. Turning the other cheek: the end of friendship.
In interpersonal interactions, we inevitably have disagreements or conflicts with others. Sometimes, these disagreements can stem from different perspectives on things, or different ways in which both parties approach issues. However, when these differences turn into a reversal, it is no longer a simple disagreement, but the end of a friendship. When we turn our faces with others, it not only destroys our relationship with each other, but also damages our image in the other person's mind. Therefore, when we are faced with conflicts, we must learn to deal with them properly and try to control them within a tolerable range, so as not to develop to the point of no return.
Second, after the friendship is broken, it is difficult to repair.
Friendship, like any other human relationship, needs to be maintained by both parties. Once one of the parties chooses to turn the other cheek, it means that the friendship has come to an end. Even if the two parties once had a deep emotional foundation, it is difficult to go back to the past. Because the friendship has lost its original trust and respect, the relationship between the two parties has changed substantially. Therefore, when we realize that the friendship has broken down, learn to accept this fact and try to find a new circle of friends and establish a new friendship.
3. Don't be swayed by your ex's desire to get back together.
Especially when the former takes the initiative to get back together, many people may hesitate. But Mo Yan's words tell us that this is a decision that is not worth shaking. Because turning the other cheek means that there is already a gap between you that cannot be bridged, and even if the ex seeks to get back together, it will not be able to make up for this rift. And, re-establishing a relationship with your ex can bring more pain and distress. Therefore, we must learn to decisively reject the ex's request for reunion and not make the wrong decision because of the emotional impulse of the moment.
Fourth, grow a wisdom and establish a solid friendship.
Every experience in life is a catalyst for our growth. When we are faced with the experience of turning our faces and getting back together with our ex, we need to learn from it and learn to handle relationships better. Only a solid friendship can take us further on the road of life. Therefore, we should cherish every friend around us and maintain the relationship with each other with our hearts. At the same time, it is also necessary to learn to adopt appropriate methods and techniques to solve problems in the face of differences and conflicts to avoid the breakdown of friendships.
We must learn to properly handle conflicts and conflicts in interpersonal relationships to avoid the breakdown of friendships. At the same time, learn to learn from each experience and keep growing and improving. Only in this way can we build a solid friendship and move towards a better life together.