The sadness of a middle-aged man!When an aunt and her husband went to the Civil Affairs Bureau to handle the divorce, they saw that the aunt was crying like a tearful person, constantly wiping her tears with her hands, and her feelings were mixed. Basically, all of the people who are involved in divorce are middle-aged. In this regard, netizens have said: It's not that I can't bear that person, but it's not worth crying for so many years.
My aunt and her husband have been married for many years, and the family has always lived a simple and plain life. In the eyes of relatives and friends, they are a happy couple, but only they know that there have been problems between the two for a long time, and now they are like the most familiar strangers, with almost no communication and communication.
In the blink of an eye, the children also went to college, and they both felt that such a marriage should be ended, so the two decided to divorce after discussion. On this day, they went to the Civil Affairs Bureau to go through the divorce formalities, and while waiting in line, the aunt saw that almost all the people around them who had gone through the divorce procedures were middle-aged people.
I don't know if it's empathy, or thinking of her helplessness and sadness over the years, she couldn't help but leave tears, and kept wiping her tears with her hands, her heart was mixed, and she couldn't tell what it was like.
This incident once aroused everyone's attention and discussion, and netizens expressed their opinions after reading it.
Some netizens said: The eldest sister looks like the kind of person who lives a down-to-earth life, if it weren't really impossible to live, she probably wouldn't have chosen to divorce. Therefore, I still want to open some, don't cry for unworthy people, there are quite a lot of divorced women, and life is not still good.
Some netizens said: How can you not feel uncomfortable?After getting married, women basically devote themselves to housework and personal contacts, thus neglecting themselves. At this age, if you get divorced, if you have money, it's okay to say, if you don't have money, you're alone. Therefore, marriage is not easy, but it is done and cherished.
Some netizens said: Two people are together, from the beginning of love, to the happy wedding scene, and then to the birth of the child, a complete family is preliminarily established. It is inevitable that there will be bumps and bumps in life, and it is inevitable that there will be incompatible personalities, and unless there are issues of principle, divorce should still be carefully considered.
Although I don't know what the reason for the divorce of this middle-aged couple is, in life, there are not a few middle-aged people who choose to divorce. When people reach middle age, the romance and passion of the past have been replaced by the trivialities of life. Busy daily work, heavy housework, and various problems that constantly emerge make middle-aged couples tired.
And these problems will become a hurdle in married life. This hurdle is a severe test for both husband and wife. Only through this hurdle can love survive in the reality of marriage. However, unfortunately, many middle-aged people did not survive this hurdle and eventually lost to the trivialities of life and the pressure of reality.
In fact, when people reach middle age, when marriage comes to the brink, don't retreat, just work hard to manage it. No matter what difficulties and challenges you face, as long as you have love in your heart, there is hidden sweetness behind every hurdle. Husband and wife are not only partners, but also friends, but also comrades-in-arms, and sharers of each other's fate.
What do you think about this?