In today's society, there are a considerable number of groups of older young people who are unmarried, some are Xi to single life, some are pursuing themselves, and some do not want to face life after marriage, however, there are still some people who think that they do not want to get married for a lifetime, and there are not a few people who think like this, so if they do not get married for a lifetime, will they be disliked?
First of all, of course, it is okay not to get married for a lifetime, everyone has the right to choose to marry or not to marry, after all, life is for oneself, which has two conditions, one is to have money, and the other is to have a strong psychological quality.
1. Economic conditions are one of the most basic conditions
This is also the only way to survive, many people think that as long as they have money, they can support themselves even when they are old, so the problem!If you have money, how much is it to be rich?You know, we are not a star effect, nor are we a rich second generation, so the cost of working to earn money in old age is also stretched, and there is no need to worry about food and clothing to a large extent, but it is unlikely to imagine that Tao Yuanming's carefree world.
2. Sufficient psychological quality
As the old saying goes, men should marry women when they get married, if they choose not to marry, to a certain extent, it violates the normal laws of nature, speaking of which, some people may object, then just imagine, all men and women in the world choose not to marry, so will there be human beings on the earth in the future?
Before choosing not to get married, then you have to face the accusations of relatives and friends and the discussion of others, of course, this is not the most important, the most important thing is to accept the unknown ups and downs that all people face, such as, sickness, loneliness, helplessness, loss and other states, maybe who will not think so, or a kind of talking and laughing attitude to face all, but after all, there is no immersive contact, who will understand that kind of taste?
The former said, unless you are particularly rich, you have someone by your side, and if you don't have capital like a star, who will come to visit when you are old. As the old saying goes, no one asks about the poor in the downtown area, and the rich have distant relatives in the mountains, which is very realistic
Not getting married is a lifetime of singleness, sometimes the pursuit of self is a selfish performance, just to pursue their own personality to show themselves, you know, whose parents don't want their son to become a dragon, hope that their daughter will become a phoenix, whose parents don't want family harmony, family happiness?Think about it, what is life like in the family?It's not about money and personality, it's about people!The reason why people do not get married for a lifetime is not accidental, most of them have experienced some setbacks, or have changed their thinking due to the influence of the modern environment, people, and events.
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