A famous doctor said that if you want to solve incurable diseases, the most important thing is not to see a famous doctor, nor to use expensive medicinal materials, but to know the right medicine in order to cure the disease and harvest health.
In the eyes of many men, love is like a difficult disease, struggling to find an antidote, and it is difficult for the person you like to catch.
In fact, it's not that love is difficult to have, but in the process of pursuing the person you like, you don't have the right medicine, which leads to giving some but not getting results.
Just like Xu Zhimo likes Lin Huiyin, but Xu Zhimo is not single, Lin Huiyin also appreciates Xu Zhimo's talent, but when she thinks of Zhang Youyi's sad eyes, she has to force herself to give up this relationship, not to become a lamenter of other people's feelings, to destroy another woman's happiness.
Xu Zhimo's pursuit of Lin Huiyin's love has its roots but there is no way. Unless two people can meet earlier, unfortunately, there are no ifs in this world.
If a man wants to get a woman, he must find out what the woman really wants, and if the pursuit is rejected, do not dwell on it blindly, but try to understand the other person's heart, so that it can be obtained.
There are at least two things that a woman wants most:
Preference is the highest state of a person who falls in love with a person and wants to give the best to his beloved, even if the lover makes a mistake, there is no blame, only companionship without reason.
Just like Sun Shaoping in the "ordinary world", when he was in school, he was like Hao Hongmei in the class, he always wanted to do something for her, Sun Shaoping was elected as a member of the life committee, distributed labor tools to his classmates, and always deliberately kept the best for use and handed it to Hao Hongmei.
Even if it is very inconspicuous and touching, hidden in the details of life, it will be noticed by women. A man's tenderness and preference will be seen by a woman little by little, so that she will be willing to give her heart.
Once when I was shopping with my husband, I accidentally broke a cup, and the waiter's attitude was very bad, so I came over to scold, I thought that my husband would also publicly accuse me of being incompetent, but I didn't expect that he did not hesitate to stand on my side and asked the waiter to apologize to me very domineeringly.
The preference that women want also includes protection, even if they are vexatious, they do not want men to stand on the opposite side, but to solve problems that they feel comfortable with.
In the process of pursuing a woman, or accidentally making your girlfriend unhappy, you must pay attention to reflection, when getting along, there is no preference, and preference will make a woman sticky.
Details frustrate love, but details also make love.
What women want is love, and in the details of life, as long as a man really gives love, is willing to be good to a person, and provides meticulous care from the perspective of the other party, it is easy to impress a woman.
is like the ** king in "The Legend of Zhen Huan", when he knew that Zhen Huan was out of the palace, everything was for her sake, and he expressed kindness to her several times. Because of his position, even if he is shaken, he hides everything and remains silent.
In a remote place like Lingyun Peak, there are often wild cats infested. One night, when Zhen Huan was sleeping, a wild cat entered the room, and the three women yelled and made a mess. The king appeared just in time to chase away the wildcats.
Later, in order to avoid the same threat, ** Wang kept Zhen Huan outside almost every night, so that Zhen Huan's heart completely melted, and she opened her heart to ** Wang.
Men's meticulous care, in the eyes of women, is synonymous with sincerity, because only when you fall in love with someone will you show care and thoughtfulness.
Feel love and sincerity, you will gradually be moved, and then exhale the love in a woman's heart, don't think that a woman's heart is like a needle at the bottom of the sea, unfathomable, and a man's heartfelt care is always like a needle, priing open the door of a woman's heart.
Love or not, you can't deceive people.
Many men, in front of women, are more just the true expression of words, thinking that as long as the words are in place, they can harvest love.
But far from paying lip service to women, women want down-to-earth actions, where men can stand by them without hesitation in the event of an argument with others, rather than being indifferent;
When menstrual pain turns to stomach pain, men can carefully prepare a cup of brown sugar hot water, instead of **, just drink more hot water.
If you want to get a woman, you have to keep your feet on the ground.
Although love cannot be produced by reason, it can end due to various factors, the longer the love, the more true feelings are needed, I hope this truth can be understood as soon as possible.