Jin Sha revealed that she cut off contact with her friends after she was asked to pay for talking about her heart, and there is more than one such friend.
Seeing this scene, I can't tell how strange it is!Many netizens commented: There must be a reason for everything!The reasons behind this are worth pondering.
Could it be that Jinsha can't tell the difference between ordinary friends and real good friends?But it's impossible for normal people to talk about their hearts to ordinary friends.
And Jinsha said that she often called these good friends in the middle of the night, chatting for hours, helping each other solve problems.
I thought, is it possible that Jinsha is beautifying this?
The so-called mutual help is actually that most of the time she is complaining, and her friends are patiently explaining her and helping her solve the problem
Seriously, if my good friend occasionally calls me in the middle of the night with an urgent matter, I can understand that.
But I often hit ** in the middle of the night, and I have to talk for hours every time, I definitely can't accept it!
You know, everyone's schedule is different!Even the best friends should have this self-awareness.
If it's not urgent, a ** in the middle of the night will really disturb others.
If you don't have this consciousness and take interruption for granted, I think no matter how good a friend is, you will turn your face after a long time.
Moreover, it is understandable that one friend asked for payment, and several friends asked for payment, which is also too strange, right?
It can be seen that this matter is not necessarily who feels wronged, but who is justified.
Perhaps, the friend's request for payment is just a joke, intended to euphemistically remind Jinsha that trouble others should be moderate!
After all, Jinsha's friends may be in a different circle than her.
Just imagine: an ordinary person, busy at work, after dealing with all kinds of trivial matters, finally get off work, and relax comfortably in his own time.
In the middle of the night, I had to be woken up by a **, and then I had to suppress the unhappiness in my heart, patiently comfort the little princess who was sad and sad, and the next day I had to drag my sleep-deprived body to start a new day's busyness.
In the long run, anyone will blow up their hair, right?
Although true friends shouldn't care so much, the relationship between people and people, to put it bluntly, will come together when they get along well.
If a person who has no sense of boundaries always takes the kindness of another person for granted, and steps on the minefield of the other party from time to time, can such a relationship still be harmonious?
Whether it's family, lovers, friends, or colleagues, you should pay attention to your sense of boundaries between each other.
The sense of boundary of adults is a tacit understanding that ends at the point!
A person who has no sense of boundaries, no matter how wise he behaves, will be avoided by people.
And the sense of boundary in friendship is probably this: I know the sadness behind your smile, understand the kindness hidden in your anger, understand the reason why you are silent, I will accompany you, but I am not omnipotent, you can't expect me to save you.
So, is it possible that the conflict between Jin Sha and her friend is not that little reward, but something else?