Qingming Festival, as a traditional festival, has a series of taboos and traditional Xi. First of all, in terms of dressing, people are inQingming FestivalDress appropriately when worshipping, try to choose plain clothes, mainly black and gray, and avoid choosing too bright colors, especially red and purple clothing. Makeup should also be kept simple, not too heavy makeup, in order to show solemnity. This is becauseQingming FestivalGoing to the grave to worship is a solemn thing, and overly fancy dressing will make others mistakenly think that they are ignorant, and it will also attract the discussion of neighbors.
Secondly, when worshipping at the grave, you should maintain a serious attitude, do not disturb others, do not talk and laugh, and maintain a solemn atmosphere. It's okay to take a commemorative photo, but it's best not to photograph **or public**, so as not to give people a sense of being out of place. The meaning of the grave sacrifice is to remember the deceased and pass on filial piety, so we should focus on the memory of the deceased relatives, and do not need to make it exaggerated, just worship silently.
Finally,Qingming FestivalIt is a festival to remember the deceased, and it is important to educate us to respect and cherish our living relatives. Therefore, carry outQingming FestivalThere is no need to be overly tedious in worship, and the true filial son should accompany and take care of the elderly more before his death, and express more care and filial piety, which is more than simply participatingQingming FestivalThe worship is even more important. A parent-child relationship should not be relied on aloneQingming FestivalThe last time it was a tomb, it should be mutual care and companionship in daily time.
Leap monthIf you don't go to the grave during the Qingming Festival, you will go to the grave and disaster will come to the door", although there is no scientific basis, it is still followed and taboo in some places. However, we should not be confused by the proverbial statement, nor should we miss the tribute to loved ones for the sake of taboos. What really matters is that we are able to remember our deceased loved ones in our own way, with sincerity and reverence, and not be bound by superstitions.
SocialThe development and progress of people have gradually gotten rid of some unreasonable superstitious concepts. Nowadays, people pay more attention to scientific rationality, pay more attention to and promote the spirit of filial piety, rather than pursuing a sense of ritual and form too much. Therefore, the day of going to worship relatives is not acceptableLeap monthwill not bring about the so-called "disaster" because it violates some outdated statements.
On the contrary, we should be aware of,Qingming FestivalVisiting the grave is a traditional Xi of respecting and remembering the deceased, and we should visit the grave with sincere respect to express our thoughts and condolences for the deceased relatives. Either wayLeap monthOr noLeap month, as long as we have respect in our hearts and do not disobeyEthicsand ethical behavior, so that no evil will befall you. The important thing is to be filial piety and love in daily life, and to care for and take care of living relatives, which is what we should really value and cherish. Either wayQingming FestivalOr other times, we should all use the power of our hearts to convey love, instead of being overly superstitious about some unreasonable statements.