In the fast-paced modern life, we are always pursuing various relationships, trying to find our place in the complex social network. However, have we ever thought that the best relationships actually have a sense of boundaries?This is the book I want to share with you today, "We Three" by Mr. Yang Jiang.
"We Three" is a work created by Mr. Yang Jiang in his later years, which depicts a loving family life with the family as the background. However, this book is not just a record of family life, it is also a textbook about relationships. In this book, Mr. Yang Jiang uses her unique perspective and deep thinking to show us that the best relationships have a sense of boundaries.
In "The Two of Us", Mr. Yang Jiang describes her family life, her and Mr. Qian Zhongshu, and their daughter Qian Yuan. The three of them form a warm family, they care for each other and support each other, but they also maintain their own independent selves.
They respect each other's independence and understand each other's needs, while also giving each other plenty of space. This kind of relationship, which has both the depth of love and the breadth of freedom, is a relationship that has both a sense of boundary and a sense of love.
In modern society, we often see some people who pursue intimacy too much and ignore the importance of a sense of boundaries. They believe that the better the relationship, the more intimate it should be, and the more indistinguishable you and me should be. However, the results are often counterproductive. Pursuing intimacy too much often makes people feel oppressed and feel lost in themselves. WhileA sense of boundaries is an important factor in maintaining a healthy relationship. It guarantees the independence of the individual and the stability of the relationship.
In "The Two of Us", Mr. Yang Jiang uses her pen to depict a family full of love, and at the same time, it also depicts a relationship full of boundaries. This kind of relationship not only embodies people's independence, but also reflects people's social nature. It tells us that the best relationships are not without borders, but with a sense of boundaries.
"We Three" is a book worth pondering. It makes us understand that whether it is a family relationship or a social relationship, there needs to be a sense of boundaries. Only in this way can the relationship be more stable and healthier. Therefore, I recommend this book to all of you in the hope that you can learn to maintain a sense of boundaries in your life so that you can have better relationships.
Finally, I would like to end this article with a sentence from Mr. Yang Jiang: "We are a nest of warmth and a nest of freedom. "That's the strength that a sense of boundaries gives us, allowing us to find warmth and freedom in our relationships. 100 help plan