Is the magic of traditional culture really that great?
Recently, I just finished reading "Niu Wenrong, a post-90s girl" written by Niu Wenrong, which should be regarded as her autobiography.
The girl on the cover is smiling and has a tenderness that radiates from the inside out. Who would have imagined that this girl used to be a headache for parents and teachers?
Niu Wenrong frankly admitted that she was a problem girl who didn't like to study, didn't respect her parents, smoked, drank, gathered to fight, and dared to openly ...... with the principalMaybe she knew in her heart that it was wrong, but she enjoyed the "difference".
Because her parents have always been in a different relationship, she has not stopped quarreling and fighting since she can remember, and even one year on Chinese New Year's Eve, other people's homes were lively and lively for the New Year, but their family was endless quarrels, and she was so afraid that she trembled and could only find her brother for comfort.
Even if she grew up in such an environment, she still hoped that her parents would not divorce, because if her parents divorced, she would have no home.
As she grew older, she began to take revenge on her parents in her own way, she felt that it was her parents who became bad, and every time she saw her parents' disappointed appearance, she would feel a sense of pleasure in her heart.
If nothing else, Niu Wenrong may continue to be rebellious like this, working against everyone, even if life is meaningless. Maybe she will find someone to marry at random, and then repeat the tragedy of her parents' marriage;Maybe she has been playing the world all her life and refuses to step into the palace of marriage because she is afraid of getting hurt. Aren't many children from bad families coming over like this?
Fortunately, she encountered the biggest accident in her life - traditional culture. Niu Wenrong's mother took her to a Chinese culture class and participated in a training camp.
At first, Niu Wenrong was very resistant, and asked to go back. Mom begged her to stay one more day, if she still didn't want to stay. She reluctantly agreed.
And that night, she followed the teacher to watch the ** of "Parents in the World", and she was shocked to learn that the milk that the child drank when she was born was actually made of her mother's blood. Later, under the guidance of the teacher, I cleaned the toilet and learned traditional ......She finally slowly changed.
The arrogant and domineering Niu Wenrong was gone, she began to restrain her anger, began to study with the teacher, began to tell her own stories, began to understand the contribution of her parents, and even became a volunteer to help other children like her. Until now, she has created her own Chinese culture class and has become the "cow teacher" in the children's mouth.
Writing it this way, it is easy to give the illusion that the change is very simple, but how difficult the process is, I guess only she knows.
We learned a long time ago that it's hard and hard to make a good habit, but it's too easy to get a bad habit.
As an ordinary reader, I believe that traditional culture does play a big role in this process, but I think that the teachers who impart knowledge must also be crucial, they must teach in the way that students like, and they must use their own character to impress students.
In fact, in recent years, there have been more and more headaches for teachers and parents, and I hope that traditional culture can be re-emphasized, and it is best to start learning some excellent traditional culture in kindergarten, which will have a certain effect on the cultivation of students' character, quality, behavior and other aspects.
And before that, we may try to learn by ourselves first, and then teach our children and friends, as long as everyone has some good changes, the world will become better and better.