Many people try their best to show themselves in front of others, but in fact, what we show is not our real self, and what we show in the eyes of others may be pretentious and hypocritical.
But if you have made a lot of achievements in relationships, then the only secret to your success is to remove the mask of disguise, and if you want to truly present your true self, you must be your true self again, because a person's charm is better than the true self, and this kind of life is wonderful enough and the most popular.
I believe that people tend to prefer truth to perfection, truth is a kind of courage and a kind of self-confidence, only one can accept imperfection. Even if you want to be perfect, you will feel that he is not perfect, although a person who is perfect in the face of perfection cannot believe that "no one can be faultless unless he is a saint or a sage".
In other words, do you want to be a perfect person in the eyes of others, or live the perfect self in your heart, and do you choose the same?Perfect people may be expected by everyone, but if they do appear, they may not be really popular.
You see, you yourself can't believe that you are perfect, so why do you think that you are perfect in the eyes of others, when a person helps a person, it may be a trivial matter, and no one will mention it in ordinary times, if you do a bad thing or accidentally do something wrong, then this thing can grow infinitely in the eyes of others, why should you be obsessed with your own imperfection?
No one doubts the reasonableness of the ancient adage that "no one is perfect". What I want to say is: a bad person will definitely not be popular in daily life, but a perfect good person is often unbearable, thinking about their own shortcomings and shortcomings everywhere, everyone has advantages and disadvantages, shortcomings are easy to find, and advantages can be shown everywhere.
A person only fully shows their true side, is our most perfect self, a shining personality charm of the light of the person is completely acceptable rather than high people, even if we occasionally make some small mistakes in daily life, but can only make your impression in the minds of others more vivid and wonderful, this is what we really need to accomplish, each of us do not care about the eyes of others, in the eyes of others there is no perfect person, we just need to do the most true self, happy and full of the future every day。