"Scumbag" Xu Huanshan stepped on the bottom line of marriage, resulting inFamily breakdown, even the company was affected and ended up in jail. "Sea King" Liang Zhengxian is "in the flowers, and the leaves do not stick to the body", even if the derailment is discovered, it canSit firmly on the Diaoyu Tai, let the "fiancée" Zhao Jingyu and the "new love" Wang Manni go head-to-head. 
is also cheating, why is only Xu Huashan eating the consequences, but Liang Zhengxian can get out of the way?The answer is very realistic: in a relationship, whoever is valuable enough has the initiative and the right to speak. Xu Huanshan and Gu Jia's marriage seems to be "male outside, female inside", but in fact it is the opposite. Xu Huanshan has been pushed forward by Gu Jia, he has gone from an unknown fireworks designer to a big boss of a fireworks company, not his own subjective choice, but Gu Jia's foresight. When there is a crisis in the company, Xu Huanshan only knows how to lose his temper, but Gu Jia canTurn the tide, not only to appease customers, but also to bring large orders to the company by virtue of the resources in the rich wife circle. Gu Jia, the perfect wife who "goes up to the hall and goes down to the kitchen".It is the backing of Xu Huanshan and the pillar of the family. Xu Huanshan knows the value of Gu Jia, so when the "little three" Lin You wants to be famous and tries to invade his family, he will bePanic
Once Gu Jia learns the truth and files for divorce, Xu Huanshan's company will not only be affected, but the originally happy family will be shattered in an instant. In this family, real masteryThe right to speakThe person is Gu Jia. If Gu Jia's heart is ruthless enough and he holds the evidence of Xu Huanshan's derailment, no matter the crisis the company is facing, he will not only be able to occupy the lion's share in the division of property, but also make Xu Huanshan even more miserable. The situation of "Sea King" Liang Zhengxian is completely different, although Zhao Jingyu is his nominal fiancée, but in fact it is oneThe perfect tool man
Liang Zhengxian asked Zhao Jing to stop3.600 millionof mansions, give value10 million's deputy card, for 7 years, has raised her into a "canary" who can't support herself, and she can't fly in the palm of her hand at all. In this relationship, Liang Zhengxian occupies the absoluteDominance, so he doesn't have to hide his "flowery" nature at all. On the contrary, Zhao Jingyu, in order to maintain his position in Liang Zhengxian's mind, he also has to be obedient and sensible to solve emotional disputes for him, and manage his interpersonal relationships with relatives and friends. 
Interpersonal relationships are very realistic, if a person has no value, no matter how sincere he is, it is difficult to get equal treatment from others. Liang Zhengxian deliberately concealed the fact that he had a fiancée, in8000 a night's hotel and Wang Manni had a spring breeze, but he never defined the relationship between the two, you can see his shrewdness and calculation. Liang Zhengxian has never considered getting married, so even if his cheating is exposed, he is only condemned at the moral level, and he does not have to bear any legal responsibility at allThere is no loss of interest. Liang Zhengxian's scum is clear, he will never give up the entire forest for a tree, and is willing to spend a small amount of money to satisfy his desires. Xu Huanshan's scum is that he betrayed his wife for his own desires, not only wanting Gu Jia to pay wholeheartedly, but also hoping that Lin Youyou would not want to be famous. In this world, how can there be a perfect thing?Liang Zhengxian can exchange money for short-term enjoyment, but it is impossible to obtain long-term true love. Xu Huanshan wantsEnjoy the blessings of all people, which is tantamount to a fool's dream. 
From the emotional experiences of these two pairs, we can learn a truth:No matter in any relationship, only by enhancing one's own value can one grasp the initiative. A passage in "Jane Eyre" hits the nail on the head: "Love is a game, and you must always be evenly matched with each other in order to attract each other in the long run." ”When you cultivate strong enough, you will not overly speculate on your partner's mind and be careful to please, but you will be able to grow together with your partner who has the same three views and create happiness. The happiness of life is not only about loveWe do not give up self-growth, have the confidence and strength, and happiness will naturally be accompanied for a long timeList of high-quality authors