When two people hold hands, they are suddenly thrown away by each other, which is indeed a very embarrassing thing. However, don't be too nervous or frustrated, as this kind of thing is very common and there are ways to resolve this embarrassment.
First, stay calm and collected. Don't let your emotions spiral out of control, don't overreact. If you feel angry or upset, you can deal with it later, but don't argue in public or with the other person.
Second, respect the other person's decision. Everyone has their own thoughts and feelings, and if the other person doesn't want to hold hands, then you should respect their decision. Don't try to force or convince them to hold hands, this will only make the situation more awkward.
Third, try to divert attention. If the atmosphere between you is awkward, try to divert your attention and talk about light-hearted topics such as work, hobbies, family, etc. This can help ease tension and make your relationship more natural and relaxed.
Fourth, learn to be humorous and self-deprecating. Humor and self-deprecation are a very effective way to deal with embarrassment. If you feel embarrassed or uncomfortable, you can use some humorous words to ease the atmosphere or laugh at yourself about your situation, which can make the other person feel relaxed and happy.
Finally, be clear about your feelings. If you feel uncomfortable or dissatisfied, it's okay to be clear about your feelings and tell the other person what you think and feel. However, be mindful of your tone and manner, and don't use offensive language or attitudes.
In conclusion, holding hands and being thrown away is not a serious matter, as long as you stay calm, respect the other person, try to divert attention, learn humor and self-deprecation, and express your feelings clearly, etc., this embarrassment can be resolved. At the same time, you should also pay attention to your attitude and tone, and don't let your emotions affect the development of the relationship.