There is a proverb that says, "Men should marry, and women should marry." "When young men and women reach a certain age, even if they themselves are not in a hurry to get married, they will be urged by their parents to be arranged on blind dates, eager to enter the palace of marriage as soon as possible, and quickly give the old people a lovely grandchild.
Today's college students have received a high level of quality education and are more rational and sober. They would rather choose their partner than waste time in an inappropriate relationship or with an inappropriate person. Once they find out that there is a problem with the other person, they will not hesitate to end the relationship early.
Campus love is beautiful, but sometimes it can seem "fake". Students in universities are usually simpler, don't have many practical problems, and all they care about is love and happiness with each other. However, when it comes to real problems, the true nature of both sides is often exposed.
A senior girl decided to leave overnight after being asked by her boyfriend to "wear linen and wear filial piety". Netizens expressed their congratulations that she ran fast. Under the influence of the severe situation and unstable factors in today's job market, being able to get a job in the system is like holding an "iron rice bowl" and full of confidence in the future. There is a senior girl who decisively gave up her boyfriend who was a civil servant who had gone ashore. After learning the truth, netizens applauded and expressed their support.
A senior college girl in Shandong shared a story with her "ex-boyfriend" on the Internet. The girl was a teacher training student, while the boy was admitted to the IRS after graduation. Such a combination seems to be a strong match at all times, but sadly, in the end, the two did not come together.
It all started with the boy's suggestion to take the girl to his hometown and let her meet her parents by the way. However, the boy did not inform the girl that his father was in serious condition. The girl happily followed the boy to her destination, but unexpectedly found that she had been taken to the hospital.
At the beginning of the journey of taking care of and accompanying the night, the girl did not complain too much. She thinks that between people who love each other, it is natural to put some effort into each other. The boy, however, shows a natural attitude that a girl should pay for his father. And in the process of accompanying the boy's father, the boy has been playing games throughout the whole process.
The boy's father eventually failed to persevere and passed away. Surprisingly, the boy did not feel grieved by his father's death, and did not even shed a single tear. On the contrary, he asked the girl to "wear linen and filial piety" for his father.
Because of the Xi of her hometown, she morally kidnapped the girl and asked her to do her filial piety for the boy. Even if the girls explicitly refused, even the boys' mothers were mobilized to persuade them. The girl came to her senses at this time, and resolutely chose to flee overnight and took the train back home.
Netizens expressed their gratitude for this, and the girl ran fast. It is shocking to be subjected to all sorts of moral kidnappings before you are married. If this kind of problem occurs in marriage, I am afraid that the girl will not be able to maintain any status in the family, and can only be reduced to serving the family.
Knowing the face but not the heart", this sentence warns college students to keep a clear head and not be confused by appearances. College life seems simple, and there is hardly much to do except study and Xi. Due to the relative ease of life, many people perform quite well, but this superficial beauty may only be an external phenomenon. In campus love, we must be wary of the truth that "the road knows the horsepower remotely, and the hearts of the people will be seen over time". Even a sweet and beautiful relationship can face various trials in daily life. College students should maintain sufficient sanity, no matter how deep the feelings, to remain sober and not allow themselves to lose themselves.
College students must be vigilant and not judge people based on appearances, nor let their core values be swayed by appearance. Even if you have excellent grades, you can't simply assume that your character is good. When evaluating a person, attention should be paid to details, and it has been said that the attitude towards the waiter during a meal often reflects a person's future behavior.
You can't blindly use filters, and even if you see the shortcomings of the other party, you can't choose to automatically ignore them, because in the end, you will suffer a loss. If you find that the other party has quality or character problems, you must stay away as soon as possible to avoid being hurt, and "constantly suffer from it".
Just like the fragrance of flowers attracts butterflies, female college students should not fall into the state of "love brain", but should strive to become better is the right way. The main task of college students is to study Xi, and female college students should not forget that if they spend too much time in love or some unimportant things, it will affect their future, which is really worth the loss.
Female college students must remember not to indulge in love, always keep a clear and rational mind, have the ability to distinguish between right and wrong, and should not compromise at any time. As the saying goes, "marriage is a woman's second reincarnation", and the same is true of a relationship.
A good romantic relationship should be a process of mutual growth and progress together, rather than wasting each other's time by consuming each other. Therefore, it is wiser to spend more time on improving yourself, Xi more knowledge, and enriching your personal knowledge.
Strive to achieve "poetry and books in the belly", when the individual becomes good enough, it will naturally attract the attention of more outstanding people, just as "the phoenix will come, and the flowers and butterflies will come".
Author's Message] Feelings are a matter of two people, and they also involve the relationship between two families. When evaluating a person, it is important to look not only at the person's qualities, but also at the other person's family atmosphere, the character of the parents, and the way they get along. These factors will determine what your life will look like in the future, so it's important to take a closer look before making a choice.
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