The "private dealings" lurking in the university are not surprising to the students, but the parents are kept in the dark
Going to university is not the end, it's a new beginning. Before stepping into college, students are full of beautiful fantasies about college life, but after they actually experience college, they find that there is a certain gap between reality and imagination. College is more liberal than high school, but life is not necessarily as rich. Poverty has become a constraint that limits the imagination of university students.
Although college students enjoy a certain degree of freedom, the cost of living is still dependent on the living expenses provided by their parents. Students from disadvantaged families may need to work part-time to make ends meet, while others can only apply for student loans to complete their studies.
If it is just to meet daily expenses and not pursue high-quality campus life excessively, it should be enough to spend about 1,500 yuan. However, some students spend so much that a few thousand dollars may not seem enough for them. The level of university living expenses varies greatly.
There is a huge disparity in wealth among college students. Some students have 10,000 yuan a month, but they claim to be frugal. Recently, there has been a trend of college students controlling their monthly consumption on social networking. I thought I could see many college students living a frugal life, but I found that the painting style was a little wrong, which seemed to be a disguised show of wealth.
For example, a female college student openly declared that she would challenge to control her monthly consumption to less than 10,000 yuan. The author can't help but wonder if he understands wrongly, isn't it commonplace to spend 10,000 yuan a month?The student spoke as if he was already frugal.
It's normal for college students to ask their parents for money, after all, they can't earn it on their own. However, they should also understand the toil of their parents. Parents invest a lot of money in their children's college education, and college is not for enjoyment, but more attention should be paid to academics.
There are also some college students who have graduated from Xi, but still ask their parents for money, and try to spend 7,000 yuan in a month. This raises doubts about whether their Xi wages can reach this level.
When some college students challenge to spend 10,000 yuan a month on living expenses, many of them fail on the seventh day because they have spent all their money in just seven days. This has aroused the lament of many college students about the gap between the rich and the poor.
Some students have a psychological imbalance due to the limited living expenses given by their parents, and they begin to have a comparison mentality. So, in order to satisfy their vanity, they took some improper paths. In universities, private transactions have become commonplace, and one manifestation of this is campus loans.
University life is like a small society, social interaction becomes complicated, classmates come from different places, and family conditions are different. In the process, some students face financial pressure because they aspire to live a luxurious life, buy famous brands, etc. As a result, they secretly apply for campus loans, and the need for girls in this area is even more pronounced.
Campus loans have become a "private transaction" that students Xi take, but many parents don't know about it. Many students, in order to satisfy their vanity, apply for campus loans, but since they usually do not have any assets and the ability to repay, they need to mortgage their ID cards or even **. Although the moment you borrow money is refreshing, when you pay it back, you will regret it deeply.
College students should keep a clear head and realize that campus loans are like a bottomless pit, and once the loan cannot be repaid, it is likely to fall into the dilemma of borrowing more and more. This is a heart-wrenching experience for parents, so there needs to be enough vigilance.
There are many "private deals" in universities, and two of them have a profound negative impact on students, often becoming the beginning of students' degeneration.
First of all, there is the question. Some college students usually neglect their studies, and when they arrive before the exam, they suddenly feel in a hurry, worried that their ability is not enough to cope with the pressure of the exam, so they are willing to spend money to hire other students**. However, this is strictly not allowed in schools and carries significant risks. If discovered, students may face serious disciplinary action or even expulsion. Students should take the exam seriously, even if they fail the course, it is much better than being discovered, after all, there is still a chance to make up the exam.
The second is the issue of substitute teaching. Students who are looking for substitute teachers often do not focus on their studies and often skip classes, but they are worried that the teacher will deduct credits by name, so they choose to spend money to find someone to replace the class. Perhaps it is the freedom of university that makes some students overindulge and even forget the original purpose of going to university. If you just go to college for the sake of making a living, then college loses its proper meaning. Students who rely too heavily on substitute teaching are likely to gradually lose sight of the importance of academics.
Unlike high school, college teachers do not pay as much attention to students' Xi and life as they do in high school. It all depends on the student's self-awareness, and the student must have self-control and understand that the purpose of going to college is to study Xi not to enjoy life or squander their parents' money. Students who are genuinely worried about losing credits or failing courses should devote more time and energy to their studies and stay away from skipping classes. University teachers are actually very benevolent and don't want to see students fail, and they will do their best to help students pass.
When you envy the luxurious life of others, you should aim to create your own ideal life. Study Xi major well, get a good job after graduation, and strive for everything you want. Avoid indulging in comparisons during your college years, as it doesn't make any sense.
Today's topic is: What do you think about these "private deals" in universities?
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