Schiller said
"True love is single-minded, and the realm of love is very small, so small that it can only accommodate two people. ”In the world of love, women want to be treated gently, but some men will express their love in some seemingly "torturous" ways.
Actually, these behaviors are not because he doesn't love, but because he cares about you too much.
Limit your "beauty".: Love is the real you
There's a song that goes like this:
"How many people have admired your youthful face, but who is willing to endure the ruthless changes of the years. ”Appearance can attract people's attention, but only people who truly love you with their hearts can walk into your heart. In his eyes, you are the light, shining brighter than anyone else, and no one else can match.
Zhang Zhilin and Yuan Yuyi have been married for more than 20 years and have always been a model couple in the entertainment industry.
At this time, someone asked Zhang Zhilin, when is Yuan Yuyi the best-looking?Zhang Zhilin said without hesitation: "I think she looks better without makeup." ”
It is precisely for this reason that Yuan Yuyi in front of the camera often has no makeup, but she still has a ruddy complexion and is full of energy.
When a man always likes to limit your "beauty". He may give you advice on your makeup, dress, or hairstyle, or even help you choose it directly.
This may seem too intrusive, but in fact, it is because he loves the real you.
It's always verbose to you: Actually, I care about you in my heart
Sanmao once said:
"If love doesn't fall on the little things like laundry, cooking, counting money, and taking care of children, it is not easy to last long."When a man always has endless things to say to you and likes to give you all kinds of advice, he may often remind you to eat, dress, sleep, and so on.
These seemingly trivial things are because he cares about your performance.
is like He Han in "The First Half of My Life", he often cares about Luo Zijun's diet and daily life, and helps take care of Luo Zijun's son when he is sick.
taught Luo Zijun to cook vegetables and soup, and at the dinner table, He Han told Luo Zijun to know how to allocate his work and life.
This kind of behavior seems to be verbose, but in fact, it is He Han who has fallen in love with Luo Zijun and implemented his love and care for her into daily details.
、Always around you** eyes are full of you
If a guy will revolve around you all the time, he may often message you, call **, and even be there for you.
It's not because he's boring or clingy, it's because he cares too much about you.
is like Xie Yang in "Hometown Don't Come to Harm", he has always loved his first love Zhang Pei in his heart, and he always pays attention to Zhang Pei's every move.
Send Zhang Pei to and from work and bring her breakfast;Accompany her to recruit employees, send her home when Zhang Pei is drunk, and talk crazy things with her.
This kind of behavior may seem clingy, but in fact, because he loves you, he will be centered on you, and no matter what he does, he will think about you in his head.
Yu Xiuhua wrote in "You Say You Hold Me Like Holding a White Cloud":
"Things in spring are too shallow, I don't want spring, I don't want roses, I don't want tears in your eyes, I just want you, I just want you to have a complete day. ”As the old saying goes, "Love is deep, responsibility is deep." "If you love someone deeply, your eyes are all about you, and those actions that seem to "torture" people are actually his deep love and concern for you.
When you meet such a man, don't "be in the midst of blessings and don't know blessings", cherish his love.