Love is mysterious, and sometimes we have questions in our hearts: does the other person have a crush on me?Do you have a place in your heart?This uncertainty often leaves us tangled and distressed. Today, let's take a look at how to make sure the other party has you in their hearts.
1.Frequency of communication
If the other person has a heart for you, they will be active when communicating. Not only do they reply in a timely manner, but they also take the initiative to start a conversation. For example, he or she often takes the initiative to send WeChat, call ** or leave a message, will ask you questions, share joys and sorrows, and even help you overcome difficulties, and the length of the conversation is no longer important. Only people who feel sorry for you will put so much time and energy into it!
2.Care and thoughtfulness
Caring for you is reflected in every aspect. Whether it's greeting you about the details of your life, caring about your work, academic progress, or taking the initiative to care and support you when you encounter setbacks. Sometimes it may just be a greeting: "How was your day?".But this simple greeting shows how much he cares about you. Of course, people who really have you in their hearts will show their concern with practical actions, such as giving you a heart-warming gift or making a bowl of soup for you to drink.
3.Close engagement
The heart is clear!The other person is likely to be interesting to you if you have a lot of interesting interactions, such as watching movies together, playing sports, sharing hobbies, etc. Social events together, or time chatting and teasing together, are all opportunities to deepen the bond with each other. If you have frequent interactions and a very high tacit understanding with each other, then the other party may not be able to hide you in their hearts!
4.Offer to help
Someone who genuinely cares about you will offer to help, both substantively and emotionally. For example, when you are troubled by work pressure, he or she will take the initiative to give you ideas or help you share some work, so that you can feel that they genuinely care. This insistence on giving help when you need it is a way to show that the other person cares about you.
5.Concern and tolerance
The other party will unconditionally tolerate everything about you, respect your choices and decisions, and will not leave you because of your impulse or bad mood. Whether it is physical or psychological need, he and she will be obligated to support them. When you are in trouble, he will accompany you hand in hand, giving you warmth and strength. This concern and tolerance is proof that you have you in your heart.
6.Future planning and sharing
People will always tend to associate the future with the people who are important to their hearts. When he or she starts to discuss the future with you and plan for the future, such as going on a trip together, planning a house or family together, then he must have a place for you in his heart!Because the other person can't wait to spend the future with you and hopes that you can be together forever.
With these clues, you can easily determine if the other party has you in mind!Of course, the feelings between people are not exactly the same, the above are just some of the general behaviors, and the specific situation needs to be different from person to person. No matter what the result is, cherish every feeling and continue to manage it with your heart, so that the flowers of love can bloom more gorgeously!