I can't bear to look at my daughter who is frowning and the corners of her mouth are involuntarily lowered. Xu Hong decided to take 4-year-old Ma Rong to escape the haze of her home and go to a mahjong parlor --- world that doesn't need men to regain her self-confidence. In front of a small card, Xu Hong often vents and dissolves extremely complex emotions.
The more she encounters the topic of divorce, Xu Hong can't help but say to Ma Rong, "Xiao Rong, my mother will be your role model, in the future, you will never marry the kind of man who does not let you rest assured and has an unstable status in the family." Although 4-year-old Ma Rong does not understand why her mother always shows a trace of disdain and contempt, from her mother's words, she has realized the importance of money and status, and it is deeply implanted in her mind. Xu Hong later suffered from depression and didn't want to talk all day long, and she didn't want to leave the house. Ma Rong's small figure began to have to face everything outside independently. Among them, the most unforgettable thing for her is that every time she goes out to play or play games with the children, she hears her mother ask with a displeased face: "Why are you messing with those poor little dolls again?"Didn't I say you should play less with those guys?Over time, Ma Rong seems to have subconsciously formed a circle of friends with obvious economic differences from her girlfriends.
When they chat, she also involuntarily leads the topic in the direction of "who has money". Gradually, the idea of money worship was deeply rooted in the young Ma Rong's heart, and slowly grew into a concept that influenced her life. "Rong'er, you have to remember that only by entering the entertainment industry can you meet a really rich and good man. This is a sentence that Ma Rong remembers deeply. In 2004, Ma Rong was admitted to the Department of Journalism of Northwest University as she wished. Standing at the school gate, Ma Rong looked forward to a new world and opportunities, but she firmly remembered her mother's advice in her heart, and she understood that her mission to enter the entertainment industry had been formed.
During the four years of college, Ma Rong took the initiative to make friends with many male students from well-off families. Several of her boyfriends even drove her to school in a car. Ma Rong is also happy to indulge in brand-name clothing and high-end restaurants. It's a pity that after all, the distance between ordinary students and these young masters is lost, and the relationship is difficult to continue in the end. After the breakup, Ma Rong didn't feel sorry or sad, after all, this was just the only way for her to enter the upper class society and meet rich people. During her senior year of internship, Ma Rong successfully obtained an internship opportunity at a telegraph in Beijing by virtue of her family connections. TV station, for Ma Rong, who has a dream, is simply an important channel to enter the entertainment industry and meet stars. As a result, Ma Rong devoted herself to the hot celebrity interview and editing work with enthusiasm, looking forward to meeting the other half of her life.
Here, Ma Rong finally met the person she was destined to do. One day in 2006, Ma Rong received a notice from her boss that she needed to interview the new student Wang Baoqiang. After a brief understanding, Ma Rong found that although Wang Baoqiang has several works, he is not a smash hit. At first, Ma Rong was not interested in this task. However, when Wang Baoqiang's figure appeared in front of Ma Rong's eyes, she immediately fell in love with his unpretentious smile. The conversation between the two was also unusually speculative. Wang Baoqiang is humble and low-key, interspersed with a few rustic jokes from time to time. Ma Rong has a strong professional quality, keeps smiling throughout the whole process, and guides Wang Baoqiang to express his mental journey and growth insights from time to time.
It didn't take long for Wang Baoqiang to be completely attracted by Ma Rong's temperament and charm, and he offered to contact him privately three times and twice. After the interview, Ma Rong sent Wang Baoqiang** to Xu Hong as soon as possible, and described the interaction between them in detail. After listening to the description, Xu Hong was like discovering a new continent, and she was very excited. Faced with her mother's support, Ma Rong decided to take the initiative. In just a few months, with Ma Rong's careful arrangement, Xu Hong's planning and guidance, and the unprecedented success of Wang Baoqiang's TV series "Soldier Assault", the relationship between the two quickly warmed up until they entered the palace of marriage. After marrying the star, Ma Rong lived a carefree life. She has extravagant and luxurious clothing, food, housing and transportation, and is noticed and worshiped by thousands of people. However, the good times did not last long, and within a few years, Ma Rong gradually got tired of these idle days.
She found that her biggest hobby in life was going shopping at high-end malls every weekend. In the face of Wang Baoqiang's increasingly busy work, Ma Rong was even a little lucky, at least she didn't have to deal with his chatterbox and endless. When the only people who really spent a long time were designer bags and like-minded people who swiped their desire to buy on WeChat, Ma Rong realized that she was emotionally exhausted, and she urgently needed someone to connect with. So Ma Rong introduced Song Zhe, the former ambiguous object, to Wang Baoqiang as an agent. It didn't take long for Ma Rong to realize that this was a win-win situation. He has spiritual sustenance, and Wang Baoqiang's career is thriving. Gradually, the two rubbed out the fire of love and became underground lovers. One night in 2014, Ma Rong, who was in love, even publicly confessed Song Zhe on Weibo.
The good times didn't last long, and in 2016, Song Zhe's wife stabbed the entire chat record of the two to Wang Baoqiang. It caused a sensation in the entire entertainment industry for a while. Ma Rong's reputation was discredited, and the unsightly videos and ** spread all over the world. The two-year divorce lawsuit exhausted Ma Rong's money and mental strength, and her life fell to the bottom, and Ma Rong regretted it but couldn't do anything. When Ma Rong's cheating scandal** was condemned one-sidedly, Xu Hong stood up for her daughter as soon as possible. In the face of iron-clad facts, Xu Hong still refused to admit it, she accused Wang Baoqiang of not being at home all day to take care of Ma Rong, and also used various evidence to scold **, trying to wash Ma Rong. But facts speak louder than words. When Xu Hong could no longer find a reason to refute, she simply pointed the finger at Song Zhe, who "started chaos and abandoned at the end". However, the scolding also revealed her inner disappointment in her daughter.
In fact, Ma Rong embarked on a lost path in life, and Xu Hong could not escape the blame. Over the years, she has blindly spoiled and indulged Ma Rong, fueled her idea of worshipping money, and failed to give her the correct emotional concept. When Ma Rong really encountered a low point in her life, Xu Hong neither gave tolerance and understanding, nor did she reflect on whether there was a problem with her education style. Life is a long road, and no one can always be right. What Ma Rong needs is not criticism, but the tolerance and encouragement of her family;What Xu Hong needs is not self-justification, but reflection and adjustment. At this time, when Ma Rong was in the darkest time of her life, she needed her mother's unconditional support for herXu Hongtou was planted on her daughter, and she also needed relief and regained her direction as a mother. Only when the two return to each other after experiencing pain and embrace understanding can they slowly get out of the trough of life.