It is often said that poverty is not terrible, but the most feared thing is laziness. This sentence perfectly interprets the current situation of 57-year-old Sister Jiang. She has no house, no savings, and can only rely on a pension of 1,500 yuan a month to survive. Although the material conditions are not superior, Sister Jiang used to be a beautiful woman with outstanding appearance. Therefore, she has no interest in men in general. Until one time, she met a man, and the two started a relationship. However, during an argument, the man almost stabbed her, which made her turn against herMarriageFear. Sister Jiang originally planned to give up her relationship, but as she grew older, she became more and more inconvenient, and she had to rent a house all the time, so she decided to try a "twilight love", hoping to find someone to take care of herself.
A blind date column group learned about Sister Jiang's situation and arranged a blind date for her. This Brother Cai happens to be the same age as Sister Jiang, and he is still unmarried. However, what was surprising was that Brother Cai left in a hurry after seeing Sister Jiang. It turned out that Brother Cai felt that Sister Jiang's appearance was average, so he was dissatisfied with this blind date. The host hurriedly called him back and asked him to sit down with Sister Jiang and talk. "I am 59 years old, I don't have a car or a house, and I only have a pension of 2,600 yuan a month. I now live with my 80-year-old mother, and I have to do everything according to her. Also, I don't know how to cook or do housework, and my mother usually does that. Even though she is 80 years old, she is still very strong and reluctant to let me do it. Therefore, I will not do housework. ”
Hearing Brother Cai say this, Sister Jiang's expression was very ugly. The host hurriedly came out and said, "Brother Cai, although you don't know how to do housework, I believe that you will definitely learn after you get married." However, Brother Cai replied, "Why should I still study?".I'm so old, and I can't adapt to those housework. I went to my wife just so that she could help my mom with the housework. I'm a bit lazy, but I opened a breakfast shop two years ago, but because I couldn't get up early, I changed to a late-night snack now. ”
Hearing this, Sister Jiang almost left. The host tried to play a round and said, "Brother Cai, you see that you are in such good health, why don't you go and find a job as a security guard?"You can also make some money this way. However, Brother Cai replied: "I don't want to be a security guard, I can't make much money when I'm so tired, I'd rather drink at home and be more comfortable." ”
After hearing Brother Cai's words, Sister Jiang left silently. Netizens commented: "No wonder this person can't find his daughter-in-law, it's a miracle that such a lazy person wants to find his daughter-in-law." "It can be said that Brother Cai is indeed a very lazy person, he has limited ability and is unwilling to take responsibilityMarriageand family responsibilities. There is a classic proverb "be diligent and rich, be lazy and wealthy", and Brother Cai is undoubtedly a living example. Let's give him a thumbs up and share our thoughts.
Brother Cai's actions and words completely show a lazy image. Not only does he not know how to do housework, but he also regards this as his privilege and is completely unwilling to change it. He made no secret of his lazy attitude, and even proudly said "I'd rather drink at home". This laziness is not just oneAttitude to life, which exposed his herightMarriagecognition. He thinksMarriageIt's just to let his wife take care of him and his mother, this irresponsible idea is chilling.
Brother Cai's various behaviors and words undoubtedly brought a huge obstacle to him finding his daughter-in-law. A man's laziness and lack of responsibility are difficult for women to trust, and even more difficult for women to rely on with confidence. MarriageIt is a relationship that requires both parties to take responsibility and put in the effort, and Brother Cai is blind to his family and responsibilities, so how can he find someone who is willing to walk with him for the rest of his life?
In contrast, Sister Jiang is a hardworking, independent, and responsible woman. Despite the fact that she is over half a hundred years old and has a meager pension, she has always worked hard to overcome the inconveniences and difficulties of life. Instead of giving up on the pursuit of love because of her financial situation, she bravely stepped out of her comfort zone and tried to find happiness again. Although Sister Jiang's appearance is no longer as dazzling as when she was young, she has a strong and internal beauty.
Sister Jiang's story tells us that no matter what age and environment we are, as long as we have the courage and hard work, we can find our own happiness. In contrast, Brother Cai's laziness and irresponsibility can neither allow him to find a daughter-in-law, nor bring real happiness to his life. There is no such thing as unearned work in this world, and true happiness and achievement can only be achieved through hard work.