I watched yesterday's one"Thousands of old grandfathers reversed".Is it a hot search?
This incident made countless netizens feel cold and sad.
And I never thought that the evil of human nature would be so concrete.
Let's find out the ins and outs of the matter.
In October 2023, a group of post-00 college students in Anhui Province met a homeless old man under the Qianbaiyi overpass in Fuyang.
The old man claimed to be 70 years old and was kicked out by his family after suffering from liver and lung cancer.
Now, he is seriously ill and homeless, waiting for death under the flyover.
The group of teenagers was so sad that they decided to take turns taking care of the old man. They used ** to record the bits and pieces of the process of getting along with their grandfather and uploaded it to the Internet. The pure heart of the teenagers has been praised by netizens, and they also want to contribute their own strength, so many netizens have donated, hoping to do their best to treat the elderly. The gears of fate began to turn. The teenagers used the money raised to take the old man to the restaurant for dinnerBuy him thick clothes for the winter, so that he will not be cold in winter. 
Even the old man wanted to see Tiananmen Square in Beijing, and they took him to fulfill this dream. 
Later, during the examination, it was learned that the old man had been misdiagnosed and that he did not have cancer. 
This news made countless people breathe a sigh of relief. The old man was not sick, the kindness of the teenager was recognized, and the donations of netizens were also reasonably arranged. If the incident ends here, it may be regarded as a beautiful event. But this matter, yesterday, ushered in an "epic" reversal. According to the "Shangguan News" report, ** contacted the college students who rescued them and informed them of the real situation. It turned out that the old man previously claimed that he was 70 years old, but this was not the case, his real age was only 56 years old. He said that he was abandoned by his relatives, but in fact, he had an older brother with whom he lived, that is, he was not abandoned by his family. And what he said before that he was penniless is not true. He has a subsistence allowance, and he can rely on this part of the money to support himself, and he does not need help from others. What's even more gasping is that this "old man with a thousand intentions" has 13 years of prison experience. According to the laws of our country, the crime of being sentenced to such a heavy sentence is second only to murder and arson. 
One by one, the reversals and the truths one by one, caught people off guard. The teenagers who learned the truth couldn't be at peace in their hearts. They deleted all 28 ** of getting along with the elderly. Just one paragraph: I don't know what the point of this isWhy do we do good things like this?I tried my best, I couldn't hold on anymore......
And what is even more poignant is that they have obviously suffered great harm and impact, but they are still thinking about how to face those netizens who donate. They said: I apologize to everyone, we can refund the money we donated before. Some of the money has already been given to grandpa, and that part of it will be ...... for everyone when we go to workSoon, some netizens confirmed: they did return the donation. 
Countless netizens regretted what happened to these teenagers, and their enthusiastic dedication turned out to be a ** that was used. So what to make of this?These college students who are full of enthusiasm have infinite yearning and beauty for this world, and as soon as they entered the society, they were taught a hard lesson by this society. In fact, it is better to plant a heel now than to plant a heel later. 
It is true that they want to help others with kindness, but before giving kindness, they must carefully screen and use wisdom, and they must leave kindness to the right people. It's not terrible for teenagers to learn a hard lesson, the only thing I'm worried about is that society is slowly becoming apathetic. When such things consume the sympathy of the masses again and again, then the whole society will slowly become hot and cold. At that time, those who really need help will be isolated, and our entire society will once again face a moral decline. Kindness is very expensive, please don't waste it, once kindness is used in the wrong place, it is actually more terrible than overflowing. 
As the saying goes, there is something hateful about the poor. Sometimes, people who seem lonely and weak have no idea what they have been through and what kind of bad intentions they have now. Just after the reversal of the Qianbaiyi grandfather incident, many netizens told their personal experiences in the comment area. A netizen said: I used to send things to the poor elderly and donated to him all the year round, and once asked the old man what else he neededAs a result, the old man said that he still wanted a wife. Later, I learned that this old man was imprisoned because of ** children, and the whole person was stunned. 
A blogger who often helps homeless people buy shoes and food, and later she asks if the person needs anything elseBut the homeless man said, "Give me a touch."
There is a ** said: When changing the patient's dressing at 12 o'clock in the evening, an old man in his 80s called her. She thought something was wrong, so she bent down to listen, but the man slapped her in the face.
Someone asked: Does it hurt?**Answer to:It hurts and it hurts, and it breaks my heart.
Another netizen said: When he was in junior high school, he transferred to the class and came to a boy whose face was burned off. At that time, there were many people in the class who bullied him, and she was the only one who did justice for him, helped him fight, and gave him make-up lessons. Later, after the boy confessed to her and was rejected, he went around publicizing that netizens slept with him.
In our rural hometown, there is an old man. He is lonely, helpless, living in a dilapidated house, often has poverty alleviation groups come to condole, and there are many caring people who donate materials and money to him. Lonely, surrounded by walls, this is the A version we have seen, but more people don't know that he actually has a B version. According to our local villagers, this old man likes to do some things in the village to steal chickens and dogs, and whoever loses something in the village can be found by going directly to his house to search for it. He even often harassed the widows in his village, generously telling them: sleep with them once, give 500 yuan. Seeing this, are your human glasses about to shatter to the ground?
Why do we sometimes pay our sincerity in exchange for not sincerity, but the ugliness of human nature?That's because you're too kind, too expectant, and ignorant of the evil of human nature. When we help others, we always have a certain imagination of them. You see that he is in rags, and you think he must be very pitiful;When you see that he is not hungry, you think that he must be desperate. You think that others are weak and helpless, but when you get closer, you will find that all this is just a façade. They got your help, showing their hideous fangs and holding back a belly of bad water, and you felt like you had been "stabbed in the back". Of course, I'm not saying don't donate to anyone, that's true for any recipient. I just want to emphasize to you that you must recognize the terrible and unfathomable nature of human nature, and do not carry your own fate with him. There is a good saying, the way of heaven is good reincarnation, some people become like this, in fact, it has a lot to do with his previous experience, he is in the reincarnation of cause and effect, and if you make a move at this time, it is very likely to hurt yourself. The rain is heavy and does not moisten the rootless grass, and the road is wide and only crosses the destined people.
Many years ago in Changsha, I helped a beggar outside Xiangya Hospital. At that time, I had just come out of the hospital and saw him sitting cross-legged with a child in his hands and a disabled calf. I immediately felt compassion and gave him a large amount of cash. The moment he saw me, he looked up, and his eyes suddenly lit up. He was surprised to see the amount of money I donated and kept saying "thank you" in a vague accent. A few years later, I went to Xiangya Hospital for a physical examination. When I came out, I inadvertently glanced to the side of the road, and at that moment, I saw him again. He still sat there cross-legged, his ragged appearance exactly the same as at that time, only this time, he did not hold the child in his hands. It dawned on me that he was using his disability to gain sympathy and defraud money.
The moment I saw him, I was furious. Because I feel like I've been cheated. But then I slowly let go. Did I lose anything to myself by helping him back then?No. And did he get my help back then and change his fate?Nor did it. We run on our own tracks, whether we accumulate virtue and do good, whether we deceive and do evil, it is all personal karma. I understand that human nature is not black and white, and there is a long spectrum between black and white. There's temptation, there's ugliness, and of course, there's a glimmer of goodness that hasn't been extinguished. So, what should we do in the face of such a situation in the future?First, protect yourself. Don't do any charity that sacrifices your own safety, and learn to protect yourself before donating to others. The news of "inviting a homeless man to eat and being followed **", the news of "donating college students to study and being bitten back", and the news of "lending money to students to pay off debts and finally becoming a cleaner yourself" are all lessons one by one. Between donating to others and protecting yourself, you must build a firewall, so that if the fire burns out there, it will not burn on yourself. Second, use wisdom and carefully screen. Not all poor people deserve your help, we must use wisdom and use kindness to the right people. Just like the previous "Grandpa Qianbaiyi" incident, when the teenagers took him to the hospital to see a doctor, when they took him on the high-speed train, they had to use his ID card, can't they see his age?Also, when you release kindness to others, you must release it slowly and observe it carefully. Don't give everything out in one go, once you find something wrong, take it back immediately, and do it with relaxation. I don't really trust an organization when it comes to charity, I like to deliver materials directly to those in need, and I only believe in myself when it comes to money.
Third, don't expect too much after helping, which is also the most important thing. After helping others, be sure to look down on all this. Not all kindness can be reciprocated, and not every kindness can be reciprocated. Netizens have a good saying:
If you accumulate your virtue, fate will definitely give you rich gifts in the end, and he has been creating evil, and in the end he will always repay himself. Everyone gets what everyone wants, everyone is responsible for everyone's destiny, and it's good to look down. If you are passionate about changing the fate of someone else and pay too much attention to him, the end result will only disappoint you. Accepting your kindness may be swallowed up, and accepting that your efforts may not be ...... rewardAnd when you are really strong enough to accept all this, and still choose kindness, kindness at that time is the most precious and shining choice.