It is true that some people are born with bloody and violent qualities, such as Wu Qianyu.
Previously, due to his deep affection with Lin Feng, the Hong Kong media severely criticized him for being a "fishing girl" and "worshipping money".
It didn't take long for the relationship with Shi Boxiong to be made public, coupled with Shi Boxiong's illustrious family background, the public ** has undergone tremendous changes, and the former "fishing girl" has now become a "little love expert".
In the past two weeks, she decided to quit in person, injecting new vitality into her image as a "little love expert".
In the TV series "Love's School Trip", she described herself like this at the beginning:
Many people's content is related to Aite me.
Wish I could publish a book or something.
This kind of performance really made the audience restless, although she appeared halfway, but judging from her current popularity, she has undoubtedly become the focus of the audience's most anticipated attention.
However, Piao has always been skeptical, just like she was initially misread by the Hong Kong media as a "fishing girl", and all subsequent evidence shows that she is not as exaggerated as ** described.
The so-called love master is not a model of love that can be used to learn Xi various behaviors as expected by the outside world
Maybe she has never been so exaggerated by Hong Kong**, and she does not have the ceiling of the love market now.
From her love experience with Lin Feng and Shi Boxiong, we can see that she has a quality that modern women desire but is not common, that is, it is very compatible.
Let's talk.
As the name suggests, worthiness means that I have the ability to match everything.
For Piao, the most impressive thing about Wu Qianyu was that Shi Boxiong told her that he had prepared a will a few years ago and planned to hand over all the inheritance to her.
For her, the shock was completely unexpected.
He nodded slightly, and then said a natural word of thanks.
It should be noted that it only took four years for these two people to go from their initial relationship** to now.
According to Shi Boxiong's description, he had already decided to hand over the inheritance to her a few years ago, but this was only in the early days of their relationship.
It was a real surprise that love was entrusted with such grandeur and formality from the very beginning, but the girl reacted so calmly, as if listening to the other person talk about tomorrow's diet.
She didn't feel unworthy because she was nervous, nor did she feel overwhelmed because she couldn't do it, all because she saw herself as as equally important as Shi Boxiong.
Indeed, I have to admit that Wu Qianyu's first impression on me was that she never despised herself, nor did she casually hold too high an opinion of others.
Judging from Shi Boxiong's current wealth, he is the head of an Internet company in the Asia-Pacific region, and his grandfather Shi Ziqing is not only a member of the Chinese People's Political Consultative Conference, but also a billionaire with a fortune of 10 billion.
According to her consistent "misogynistic" tone of Hong Kong**, when she fell in love with Lin Feng, those ridiculed "money worship" statements appeared again in her love story with Shi Boxiong.
In her first relationship with Shi Boxiong, Hong Kong's ** often used the term "secret fishing".
However, she rarely judges her emotional state based solely on outside evaluations.
Instead of being over-interpreted by the Hong Kong media and pandering to a higher status, on the contrary, it presents an objective fact observed from a third perspective.
It can be seen from her description of Shi Boxiong: he hovers between appearance and handsomeness, giving people the feeling of a sad frog.
It is in stark contrast to Shi Boxiong's opinion of her.
Her name is Mr. Wu.
Because I have a great respect for her.
Therefore, I decided to address you as Mr. Wu.
This subtle difference in the evaluation of each other does not directly reflect the true feelings of the man in this love relationship.
When the outside world thinks less and less of him, believing that he is not worthy of being with him, he should value the other person even more.
Since he is often referred to as "Mr. Shi", he believes that "Mr. XX" is one of the best ways to show respect to others.
What is hidden behind "Mr. Wu" is that he clearly states that his attitude towards his loved ones is equal and respectful in a "contrarian" way.
Piao believes that in order to truly understand this kind of respect, Wu Qianyu himself is the key.
Wu Qianyu is a rare young woman with decision-making power in your world.
Having a strong will and determination not only represents perseverance, but more importantly, it is important to be able to know your own path forward in the face of pressure and turmoil.
Especially in the entertainment industry where she lives, being able to maintain herself while being discussed is a very rare and precious trait.
He describes showing more maturity and tenacity than his peers since he was a child.
He entered the entertainment industry after graduating from high school, and his parents were not in his life. In order to protect himself, when he meets someone he is not familiar with, his heart may already be turbulent, but he will not show any emotions easily.
This trait manifests itself in a relationship, where it becomes an ability to easily establish boundaries and ensure that one's life is undisturbed even in the whirlpool of **.
In 2013, due to Lin Feng's 7 intimate interactions with Qianyu BB in front of the camera, the relationship between the two reached its peak, and at the same time, Wu Qianyu also encountered the coldness of the public.
In the eyes of Hong Kong's **, a young woman from a stall married the son of a wealthy businessman, not only did she not choose to hide her identity, but showed her love in front of everyone, which is undoubtedly a challenge to traditional Xi.
As a result, during that particular period, despite just buying a handbag and going on a trip abroad, the Hong Kong media was more inclined to use highly insulting words such as "inflated" and "drained" to describe her.
Subsequently, she became a scheming upper-class woman in the minds of the audience, and Lin Feng became the victim who laughed just to please the beauty.
Despite this malice, she showed surprisingly calmness.
In the course of the interview, I denied it many times, always believing that I was supporting myself.
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Wu Qianyu moved out of their mansion after the two broke up, which once again confirmed the fact that there is no so-called domineering behavior of buying a mansion for his girlfriend. In fact, the so-called luxury housing projects have always been named after Lin Feng.
Even if he later chose to break up, his life was still not disturbed in any way.
From late 2017 to early 2018, this period was the most popular period for the two to break up.
It can be seen from Wu Qianyu's daily life that she still worked as usual during that time, and the Japanese skiing activities she planned to go to every year were also updated on time**.
It's easy to see that she always sees her daily life as a priority.
This way of thinking that puts "me" first ensures that she will not become a love brain manipulated by the other party at will in the process of falling in love.
Last year, she used the last moment of the kiss with Shi Boxiong** in the vlog game to subtly reveal her romantic relationship.
This incident made Shi Boxiong ecstatic.
For the past few years, he's just a secret boyfriend who wants to make it public but can't.
has been deleted from many women's vlogs, even if it is shared during meals**, it will blur the image of the woman.
This. Whoever it is, it's a little emotional.
However, Wu Qianyu will never be easily swayed by the other party's petty temper.
She has a firm attitude towards her relationship, and it is precisely because her previous love relationship has affected her mother that she has become more careful when making her relationship public.
Compared with Lin Feng's current Zhang Xinyue, this focus on personal needs is particularly prominent.
A pulpy fragment wrapped in a plate.
This is also a discussion of the external misunderstanding that Lin Feng encountered.
Zhang Xinyue first expressed her grievances, but when others gave solutions, she still shook her head with grievances.
At that particular moment, she seemed to weave a whirlpool of grievances for herself.
She feels wronged when others misunderstand her.
Lin Feng defended her, and she felt unfair for Lin Feng.
In short, feel wronged no matter what.
In her aggrieved narrative, she unconsciously puts herself in the position of a victim, constantly magnifying the damage inflicted on her by the outside world, while her initiative and problem-solving skills are completely imperceptible from the perspective of the outside world.
This is the core spirit described by Piao.
It is an awakening of consciousness, which clarifies one's own abilities.
There is clear evidence that Wu Qianyu never saw himself as a victim.
According to Shi Boxiong's description, the love between the two was once opposed by the man's whole family, but she never considered the other party's decision and only did what she thought was right.
On the day of the Mid-Autumn Festival, although she knew that the other party's family did not like her, she still chose to have dinner with them and carefully prepared gifts for them.
From an early age, she was taught the traditional festival of having dinner with her elders.
You see, although they were all misunderstood, she chose a completely different approach from Zhang Xinyue.
She took the initiative to take the right to explain in her own hands, and let the other party deeply feel what kind of person she is through practical actions.
Only in this way will we be able to get rid of misunderstandings.
Such an opportunity was not given by the pity of others, but by her own persistence and hard work.
This firm and calm attitude is supported by her self-confidence, which is another important reason why she can give people a sense of worthiness.
Perhaps because she saw a lot of news about her being filmed in a bar, she was considered an entertainment star for a while.
To my surprise, when I participated in the show this time, she left a steady and steady impression on me.
When the couple made their debut, the gifts they prepared for them were specially made Hong Kong specialties. There are a lot of medicinal ingredients in the "wife cake", and there is also a small biscuit and some medicinal powder attached to it. "Wife Cake" fits perfectly with the core theme of the show, and the medicinal oil prepared is also planned in advance for this field recording plan.
Not only in terms of social etiquette, but also in terms of her every action step.
Taking this show as an example, whenever she mentioned each guest, she was quick to describe the characteristics of the other party.
When we first met at the entrance to the ancient city, the name of Zhou Zhou Wai could be quickly matched, and although he later had this opportunity, he unexpectedly became the first to break the deadlock.
At that moment, I realized that my previous attitude towards her was so casual and casual, and it was actually a misunderstanding of her.
She is definitely a 100% ** and she has a high sense of responsibility for her decisions and actions.
She has a responsible attitude towards every step of the way, which has also allowed her to unknowingly accumulate a lot of positive feedback.
It is obvious that Shi Boxiong will praise her wisdom both in chat and in interviews.
This wisdom is not an innate intelligence, but a responsibility that she should assume as an adult after she has a deep understanding of social norms.
It is from this positive feedback that we gradually develop self-confidence.
Therefore, when we look at Wu Qianyu's sense of worthiness, its meaning also changes.
What she gives us is not an arrogant attitude of "I deserve everything" for no reason, but a stronger sense of belonging.
This is a state of mind that An Lingrong has never experienced.
In her life, whether it's deciding whether or not to go public in love, or changing public perception, she always puts "me" first, trying to meet her own needs without hurting others.
It is for this reason that she still has the strength to sustain herself in this struggle between blood and fire.
However, all this is due to the gradual awakening of self-awareness. It is only when you first recognize that you are an individual and have the ability to change that you will begin to take the next step.
The most valuable thing about her is that she breaks with the traditional notion of waiting for others to be redeemed, because she has experienced it firsthand, witnessed the changes and results that she can bring on her own, and her attitude remains steadfast even in the face of the great gift of "inheritance".
So, at the end of the day, I'm more inclined to think that the beginning of worthiness is more of a "trust" in myself than the arrogance of "I deserve everything."
It is only when a girl gives up her fantasy of waiting for redemption that her sense of worthiness truly begins.
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