Three minutes to talk about culture
November 28, Henan. Netizens posted that she quarreled with her mother-in-law in the hospital during the confinement period, and the reason was that her husband went to work on the fourth day after her caesarean section, but the wife felt that it was inconvenient for her husband to be absent and did not want her husband to go to work so soon. The mother-in-law on the side thought that the woman was making trouble unreasonably, and angrily reprimanded, "What do you want to do!".He also said that the pressure from his son's unit was too great, and the woman also had to think about the child. The woman's husband was very disappointed that he did not say a word when he saw the whole process.
What do netizens think about this matter?
I think that this mother-in-law and daughter-in-law conflict are responsible, but more responsibility is the husband who doesn't speak, followed by the mother-in-law.
Let me start with my mother-in-law.
I think this old man crossed the line.
You can teach your son, your husband, but you really don't have much qualification to point at your daughter-in-law's nose to educate people, and it's really a failure if you can't even understand the relationship between people at such an old age.
I think it's best to live a farther life as an old man, there is no need to let other people's lives live according to your ideas, the times are different, even if your children have conflicts, you shouldn't directly intervene to criticize others, other people's lives have nothing to do with you.
Smart old people know that it is necessary to maintain a sense of distance, and having no boundaries will only make people feel offended.
Just like this mother-in-law, what does this matter have to do with you?Even if you want to take care of you, you should find a way to get the girl's parents to come forward instead of you.
Let's talk about this husband again.
Most of the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationships are related to their husbands, and this kind of man who hides when he encounters things is a selfish act of self-preservation.
A husband is often a filter between mother-in-law and wife, he is a relative of two people, so he should actively participate in anything to minimize the risk of conflict, many men will choose to be silent and be a good baby at such times, this practice is very selfish, their silence will only lead to the intensification of things.
There are even some people who take the conflict between their wife and mother as a joke, I once said happily at a party that his wife and his mother often quarreled, getting worse and worse, he showed off that he never participated, and sometimes he saw it as a joke, when he finished speaking, everyone's face was surprised, but he boasted how glorious he felt.
In the end, it's this woman, to be honest, I can't judge what is wrong with this woman, but there is one thing he should pay attention to, that is, even if he is not in good health and uncomfortable, he must understand others, if your husband is fired because of your behavior, how would you feel?
As a wife, you shouldn't be a stumbling block to him even if you can't help him.
Finally, I want to say that the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is often caused by everyone's problems, not by one or two people.