I remember that day, the blue sky and white clouds, the breeze came slowly, like a dream. On that very day, I married my college goddess. Her beauty, like an indescribable painting, fascinated me deeply and made me unable to extricate myself.
The first time we met was in the university library, and she was like a blooming flower. At that moment, I was completely immersed in her beauty and couldn't help myself. We went from acquaintance, understanding, falling in love to getting married.
On the day of her wedding, she was dressed in a white wedding dress, and her whole person exuded dazzling light, as beautiful as a fairy in the sky. The blessings of relatives and friends are endless, and the breath of happiness spreads. I think this is the apex of life, the apex of happiness.
But after half a year, I gradually realized that being good-looking doesn't mean eating. Life is not as flat as in fairy tales, it is a tortuous and challenging journey.
At the beginning of our marriage, we indulged in the sweetness of newlywedness and confidence in life. But over time, some trivial things in life will accumulate. In my daily interactions, I found that marriage is not only romantic, but also trivial and contradictory in life.
One night, I was sitting on the couch with her, and suddenly she said to me with a smile: "Husband, I want to buy a new set of furniture, is that okay?"I chuckled in my heart, this is not a small amount, and I said with some embarrassment: "The furniture at home is very good, there is no need to buy any more." She had an unhappy look on her face, but immediately smiled again: "So be it." ”
But I began to see a look of dissatisfaction in her eyes. A wonderful night became boring, and so did our conversation. I began to wonder if marriage is like this, and being good-looking really can't be eaten.
One day, I decided to tell her about these contradictions. We sat in the living room in the dim light and it was raining lightly outside. I opened my mouth: "Honey, there is less and less communication between us, will something happen?".She paused and voiced her dissatisfaction: "In your eyes, I'm just a pretty supporting character, right?"”
I chuckled in my heart, I didn't expect her to feel this way. As we chatted, our conversation became lively. She said she wished I had more to expect from her married life.
It was at this time that I began to reflect on what I had done. Perhaps, I was so caught up in the accident that I forgot that in married life, the most important thing is communication and understanding. I used to think that beauty is what marriage is all about, but I ignored the importance of husband and wife working together and understanding each other.
In the days that followed, I tried to change myself, to pay attention to her inner world, to communicate with her, to share her life. Gradually, we regained the understanding and balance in our marriage.
It turns out that getting married is not a gorgeous, but a profound life experience. We have learned to understand each other, respect each other, tolerate each other, and move forward together in the twists and turns of life. The most important thing is that people are good-looking and have a good heart.
Looking back, I'm glad I was able to walk with you through the ups and downs of your marriage and find love for each other again. Marriage is not a fairytale flat, but learning and growing again and again. After six months of exploring marriage, I finally understood that beauty is not something to eat, and true happiness is the result of heart-to-heart communication and joint efforts.