"Whispered education" is the best education for childrenIn today's society, the importance of family education is self-evident. Many parents will use various educational methods in order to get their children to achieve better grades. However, some parents tend to ignore the importance of "whispering education" when educating their children.
One: often yelling at the baby will break the parent-child relationship In the process of educating children, a crucial point is: "The relationship is greater than education." This means that building a good emotional connection with your child is the first step in educating your child. It is only when children feel understood and supported by their parents that they will be willing to cooperate with their parents and be educated by their parents. However, if we yell at our children too often, it can ruin this parent-child relationship. Children may become reluctant to communicate with their parents or even refuse to be educated by their parents. Therefore, in order to build a good relationship with their children, parents should try to avoid yelling at their children. Two: Yelling at children often will make children feel insecureChildren need to feel the love and attention of their parents in order to establish a stable sense of security. However, if parents often yell at their children, children may feel denied and unvalued. This emotional damage can be upsetting and insecure for children. They may begin to doubt whether they are worthy of love, and this mindset may affect their self-esteem and self-confidence. Therefore, parents should avoid yelling at their children as much as possible and should instead guide their children in a gentle way. Three: Educate children that the louder the voice, the worse the effectMany parents believe that the louder the voice, the more obedient the child. However, this is not the case. In fact, loud yelling may make children feel frightened or upset, making them even more reluctant to accept their parents' education. In addition, children may imitate their parents' way and treat others with the same yelling. This behavior may affect their social skills and relationships. Therefore, parents should try to avoid using loud yelling to educate their children and should instead try to guide their children with gentle language and gestures. 
How to do low-voice education.
When confronted with their child's mistakes or bad behavior, parents need to criticize their child in an appropriate way. Lowering your voice and speaking softly is an effective way to better help your child understand his mistakes and promote harmony in the parent-child relationship.
First of all, lowering the tone of the voice can avoid negative emotional stress for the child. When parents criticize their children in a gentle tone, it is easier for them to accept and understand their mistakes. Conversely, a loud reprimand may make children feel frightened or disgusted, causing them to lose their ability to concentrate on understanding their mistakes.
Secondly, a soft tone can ease the child's resistance. When parents communicate with their children in a soft tone, they will be more likely to feel the love and support of their parents. This can help children better understand their mistakes and motivate them to correct them.
In addition, lowering the tone of voice can also help parents control their emotions. Parents may feel angry or disappointed in the face of their child's mistakes, but by lowering their voice to express their opinions, they can avoid over-agitation of emotions and thus communicate better with their children.
In conclusion, lowering the tone and softening the tone is an effective method of criticism that can help children better understand their own mistakes, alleviate their feelings of resistance, and promote harmony in the parent-child relationship. Parents may wish to try this method to communicate with their children and make the family atmosphere more harmonious.
When we feel angry, it's easy to get caught up in our emotions, and the best way to do this is to press the pause button and calm down for a while. You can go to the calm corner and find some ways to relax yourself, such as listening, reading, drawing, etc., these activities can help us divert our attention and relieve our emotions. At the same time, we can also try deep breathing and mental counting, which can help us relax and reduce tension and anxiety.
When we have calmed down and our emotions have eased, try to lower our voice to communicate with our children. When communicating, try to stay calm and rational and don't vent your emotions on your child. You can try to use some gentle words and expressions to express your thoughts and feelings, so that your child can feel our care and love. At the same time, you can also try to listen to your child's thoughts and feelings, understand their needs and problems, and help them find solutions to their problems.
In this way, we can better communicate with our children and strengthen the parent-child relationship. At the same time, it can also help us better control our emotions and avoid regretting decisions because of emotional out-of-control. In the process of educating children, we must always remain calm and rational, and use scientific methods to guide children's growth.
It is very important to teach your child how to speak. In our daily lives, we often need to communicate with others, and the way we speak and our attitudes often directly affect our relationships with others. Therefore, teaching children how to speak, how to express their thoughts and feelings, is essential for their growth and development. When teaching children the truth of speaking, we can start from the following aspects: First, let children understand that they should speak slowly in the face of urgency. It's easy to get flustered and nervous in an emergency, but it's important to stay calm and calm in this situation. If children can learn to stay calm in the face of emergencies and express themselves clearly, they will be better able to cope with various situations. Second, for the big things, be clear. In important situations or when dealing with important things, children should understand the importance of being clear and concise. This will enable children to be more confident and organized in their later lives. Third, for small things, be humorous. Humor is a great way to communicate, relieving tension and increasing closeness. Allowing children to learn to use humorous expressions in appropriate situations can make them more popular. Fourth, be cautious about what you are not sure about. When you're not sure if you'll be able to accomplish something, don't easily promise or exaggerate your abilities. This not only allows children to assess their abilities more realistically, but also develops a sense of responsibility and prudence. Fifth, don't talk nonsense about things that didn't happen. Children tend to be curious and imaginative about the future, but random speculation or nonsense about what will happen in the future can easily cause unnecessary misunderstandings and contradictions. Therefore, let your child know not to speculate or talk nonsense without factual basis. Sixth, don't talk nonsense about what you can't do. Sometimes children exaggerate their abilities or make unrealistic promises in order to show off their abilities or to meet the expectations of others. But doing so will only cause them to lose the trust and respect of others. Therefore, it is important for your child to understand not to promise or exaggerate his abilities when he is unable to do something. Seventh, you can't say anything about hurting people. There are sometimes verbal arguments or conflicts between children, but saying things that hurt others will only exacerbate the conflict and hurt. Therefore, it is important for your child to understand the importance of not saying things that hurt others. Eighth, for the things you hate, you should be right about things and not about people. When children are confronted with something they don't like or hate, it's easy to react emotionally. But doing so will only make things worse. Therefore, it is important for children to understand the importance of treating things and not people, so that they can learn to evaluate things and people objectively. Ninth, for happy things, it depends on the occasion. Children tend to be more excited and excited on pleasant occasions or situations, but they should also pay attention to the occasion and their words and deeds. This will help children better understand how to express their emotions and joys in different situations. 
In short, "whispering education" is one of the best ways to educate children. It can reduce children's psychological pressure, help children better accept the teachings of parents, cultivate children's self-confidence and self-esteem, and also help parents better control their emotions. Therefore, parents should try to communicate with their children in a "whispered education" way, so that their children can grow up in a peaceful and calm environment.