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When someone says they want you to forgive someone who has hurt you, think about whether this person is fake compassion or has low emotional intelligenceIf the person who says this is the person who hurts you, then this person is very bad, he wants to continue to take advantage of you at zero cost, maybe he is a narcissist or ***
You can scoff at such a cheap PUAYou just need to forgive one person, and that is your past self。You have to love yourself unconditionally and forgive you for being immature and careless in the past, and you have been gullible about this rotten person. Remember, though, that a review that doesn't take action is a waste of time and energy.
Today's you will say to the past that it doesn't matter, I learned after experiencing such a trick, I recognized this rotten person, my recognition skills have grown, my dog-fighting skills have also been iterated, and this rotten person can no longer take advantage of me in the future, and I am not afraid of similar rotten people, and I will not be soft.
There are no cosmic rules that say that you have to reconnect with the person who hurt you。The broken mirror can't be reunited, and the way you get along with the person who hurt you can't go back to the past, because you've seen his true colors. You don't have amnesia and you're not your old self anymore.
If you choose to continue to maintain a relationship with this rotten person, it is because it is profitable for you, not because you are willing to continue to be stupidly taken advantage of by him. If you choose to disown this person, it makes sense as long as it's good for you.
When you are calm and don't talk about this past experience, it is because you love yourself enough and don't want to waste precious time and energy on this rotten person.
Just because you don't hold grudges doesn't mean you don't remember the lessons。You've leveled up your fight against monsters, this rotten NPC doesn't make sense to you anymore, and you still have to continue the main quest of your life's journey. After all, the game time is limited, let this rotten NPC get out of your track.
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