In a relationship, a man can naturally give wholeheartedly, even if he gives everything he has for a woman.
However, before paying, you must first keep your eyes open and see clearly, maintain enough sanity, and see whether the woman in front of you is the person who is worth paying for her. If she is indeed the right person, then even if it is a little harder, even if she walks a little farther, it is not a big deal.
But if it is not worth your effort, then let alone spending money for her, even if it takes a little more time for her, it is a waste of your life.
You must know that some women appear in your life just to accompany you for the rest of your life. And some women, from beginning to end, are just playing with you. If the relationship is wrong, the future must be ups and downs.
Generally speaking, when a middle-aged woman does this, she is pretending to love you, not really loving you, don't be stupid.
1.I don't usually keep in touch, but occasionally flirt
When a woman reaches middle age, if she is still single, then the word "man" is dispensable in her life.
She can treat you as a friend, but she will never easily treat you as her lover or lover. Once you enter her heart, then she will definitely intersect with you in all aspects of life, consciously or unconsciously.
After all, at this age, it is really not easy to meet a man who makes you feel excited, so how can you easily miss it?
Therefore, when a middle-aged woman usually doesn't contact you, she will only occasionally come to tease you, ask you to invite her to dinner, invite her to watch a movie, she will do this, that is fake love for you, not really love you, don't be stupid.
Don't think that she took the initiative to come to you, and even in the process of meeting, there will be some intimate interactions. But it's just that she uses you as a tool to relieve loneliness or dispel boredom, and it has nothing to do with true love.
2.There are other ambiguous men
When a woman reaches middle age, if she is truly in love with a certain man, it must be the only one, it cannot be replaced, and she does not need your reminder at all, and she will also take the initiative to keep enough distance from other men to avoid making you have a bad impression. Unless, she is closer to other men because there are other demands.
Generally speaking, when a middle-aged woman is not only good to you, but also has some ambiguous relationships with other men, she will do this, that is, she loves you falsely, not really loves you, don't be stupid.
You think she's an exception to you, and it's likely that the love words she said to you when she turned around and said them to other men would also be the same. In her eyes, you are just one of them, a spare tire, or even just a big wrongdoer.
3.Always refuse to be open about their relationship with each other
When a woman reaches middle age, her cognition of men and feelings is often more profound and mature. She knows very well what role she has to play in a man's life.
If she really loves you, it's naturally clear that she doesn't have that much time to waste. When the time is almost right, I will take the initiative to raise my feelings to the point of talking about marriage.
Therefore, when a middle-aged woman, she always refuses to disclose the relationship between each other, even if she will be very good to you in private, and even wake up in the same bed with you more than once, but she will do this, still fake love you, not really love you, don't be stupid. To put it simply, in her definition, you are likely to be just a tool to meet her physiological needs.
Or, she is a ** who does not need to rely on responsibly and have a sense of security, and it has nothing to do with love, the rest of her life, and her life.