She values money and refuses to even lend me 3 million, but she also mentions love.
Zhou Xun ended her 6-year marriage in 2020, and then her ex-husband Gao Shengyuan said the following.
Everyone was suddenly puzzled, could this extremely free and easy woman fail her marriage because of this incident?
Fortunately, everyone actively collected information to expose the irreconcilable contradictions and helplessness behind the failure of their marriage.
Zhejiang is the birthplace of Zhou Xun, and one of the reasons she became interested in performing arts was because her father was a movie theater projectionist.
She was finally admitted to Zhejiang Art School with her outstanding performance.
She successfully came out of the circle in 1991 with "Tomb Wasteland", and since then she has been moving forward on the road of being an actor, bringing surprises to the audience every time.
She has won numerous awards, won countless titles as actresses, and her flexible and superb performance always makes people sigh: she was born to be an actress.
Because of her talent and grasp of the emotions of her characters, many people believe that her works are not only ornamental, but also have a deeper artistic meaning.
She is always able to rely on her personal strength to bring an indescribable atmosphere of the times to the audience through the interpretation of roles.
Moreover, she will also integrate her own values into the roles she plays, and it can be said that she deserves to be called a "powerful actor".
However, her love life is not like a series of wonderful peaks in her career, but a bumpy road.
Since 1993, she has experienced 7 relationships in the past ten years, all of which have ended in failure. Just when everyone was becoming suspicious of the news of Zhou Xun's "marriage", a man appeared.
In 2014, Zhou Xun, a star who rarely discloses his personal emotional state on the Internet, suddenly announced through an official release: "This is archie, please pay more attention." ”
Zhou Xun smiled as bright as a flower in **, as sweet and cute as a girl, and the man next to him was tall and handsome, and the two looked very compatible.
It is unknown whether she is trying to help her boyfriend increase her ** degree.
Then, below, she attached an introduction to Gao Shengyuan**, the content is that this man's name is Gao Shengyuan, and he is also an actor, but his Chinese-American identity makes him not well-known in China.
The identity of this man is not the focus of everyone's attention, what everyone is more interested in is that although Zhou Xun has experienced many relationships over the years, this time it is almost unique to announce it so publicly, which can't help but make people speculate: Is she going to get married?
Zhou Xun's silence was short-lived, and once she spoke, it would be amazing.
Two months later, it was officially announced that they had actually received the certificate!Even after experiencing so many unforgettable relationships, Zhou Xun has never had the urge to get married.
Why would a person with a small reputation arouse her urge to enter the palace of marriage?
Putting aside the factors of money and status, it is generally believed that this man is likely to win Zhou Xun's heart with his inner charm, and perhaps they are the so-called "soul mates".
Sadly, however, the couple, who are considered "soul mates", began to show signs of a relationship breakdown after more than two years of marriage.
* Always like to exaggerate, the slightest embarrassing emotion can cause them to make a big splash and report the news that the couple is going to divorce.
In fact, this marriage is not coming to an end, and there are some signs as early as the beginning of the relationship.
In 2013, Zhou Xun met Gao Shengyuan at the birthday party of the host Wu Junru, and after just a brief conversation, they felt that they had known each other for a long time.
According to rumors, there was also a small game at the birthday party that night, that is, everyone drew lots together, and if two people caught the same pattern, it was considered to be fateful.
Zhou Xun and Gao Shengyuan coincidentally caught the same pattern.
When the friends learned about it, they coaxed, and the two looked at each other under the lights and laughing, and love sprouted.
At that time, Zhou Xun had just broken up with Wang Shuo, and he was in the stage where he needed to fill the emptiness in his heart with feelings. Therefore, she directly expressed her admiration for him to Gao Shengyuan, because he was tall, handsome and full of humor.
After Zhou Xun and Gao Shengyuan were together, Zhou Xun's parents were not too happy.
As the only daughter in the family, her parents wanted her to be by her side at all times, so after learning that Gao Shengyuan's family had settled in the United States all the year round, they were worried that their daughter would also follow away, so they strongly objected.
As we all know, Zhou Xun is a filial daughter, but in terms of love, she has always maintained an independent way of thinking, so she did not make concessions this time.
Eventually, the parents were also moved by her persistence, because for them, nothing was more important than their daughter's happiness.
The blessing of parents is essential for the longevity of a marriage, as the ancients said.
The truth of this sentence is ignored, but in Zhou Xun, this sentence is appropriate.
In July 2014, the two were about to receive their certificates. The night before receiving the license, Zhou Xun and her girlfriends got together to party.
In the dead of night, everyone was sitting on the balcony drinking, when the girlfriend suddenly said: Do you consider making a property fair before you get married?After all, the gap between you is quite obvious.
Zhou Xun has always experienced the world with feelings, and she believes that if she chooses to be with her for a lifetime, she should have deep trust. So, does doing property justice mean preparing for divorce?
What she didn't expect was that, despite her dedication to the marriage, she ended up leaving the man with pain and losing a lot of possessions.
After Zhou Xun got married, Gao Shengyuan became a member of Zhou Xun's studio because she had a certain right to speak in the circle and had her own studio.
In a calm and stable life, Zhou Xun's parents and Gao Shengyuan both decided to have children.
Zhou Xun originally planned to wait a few more years to have a child, but she was urged by both parties to finally compromise. However, although they had been preparing for half a year, the little angel who was looking forward to it never came to Zhou Xun's arms.
They went to the hospital for an examination with some anxiety, and the doctor told them that they were all healthy, but because of years of fatigue, Zhou Xun's body was a little weak and needed to be recuperated.
Gao Shengyuan advised Zhou Xun to follow the doctor's advice, stop working temporarily, and devote himself to preparing for pregnancy. However, over the years, Zhou Xun has relied almost on his own salary to keep the studio running.
She has realized that not working affects her much more than just her personal income.
She couldn't give up her job, so she could only work hard for her "companions" while constantly taking medication.
In the two years of preparing for pregnancy, she not only starred in many films such as "Eavesdropping" and "Red Sorghum", but also tried her hand at the work of producer and host, and also released her own single in the process of personal growth, showing a well-rounded artist's demeanor.
Gao Shengyuan's career has not improved, and even most of the opportunities he got were won by Zhou Xun for him.
Due to his long-term development in the United States, his acting thinking is very different from that in China, which also makes it difficult to find directors who are willing to work with him.
However, with Zhou Xun's intervention, he eventually got the opportunity to act in several films, albeit in small roles.
His career has not improved, and most of the time he spends his time at home doing nothing. It would be good if there was a child to take care of, but Zhou Xun couldn't wholeheartedly cooperate with him to prepare for pregnancy.
After two years of unsuccessful attempts to conceive, Gao Shengyuan was disappointed. So, he decided that he also wanted to make a difference in his career, but found it difficult for the film and television industry to continue to develop, so he planned to start a company with a friend.
His funds were not enough to start a company, so he decided to ask Zhou Xun for help. However, Zhou Xun always believes that it is better for an actor to focus on his own work, and letting a layman engage in investment activities may lead to undesirable consequences.
Later, after the two divorced, Gao Shengyuan used this incident to satirize Zhou Xun.
In 2017, Gao Shengyuan decided to return to the United States for development, because he did not have Zhou Xun's support and had no development in China. What's even more incomprehensible is that he made this decision without consulting Zhou Xun at all.
Zhou Xun stayed in the crew for many days and finally had time to go home. As soon as she returned home, the nanny told her that Gao Shengyuan had gone to the United States.
Zhou Xun felt flustered at that moment, as if she realized something important, and she hurriedly sent a message to Gao Shengyuan to ask when he would go home.
Maybe it's half a year, maybe it's longer, I'm not sure.
The estrangement between husband and wife is succinctly expressed and empathetic. Zhou Xun didn't understand how he made his marriage like this.
However, life had to go on, and her studio buddies needed her, so she picked herself up and continued to dedicate herself to her work.
During that time, the couple rarely communicated, and there were still a few conversations in the first week, but as time went on, it became commonplace not to contact for a month or two.
On October 18, 2017, unlike previous years, Zhou Xun did not receive a surprise from Gao Shengyuan on his birthday, and he did not even have a birthday wish.
That night, after Zhou Xun's colleagues in the studio celebrated her birthday, she returned home silently in tears.
It's still the second year's birthday, and the scene is the same.
Although Zhou Xun may have realized that the other party's feelings may no longer be so deep, she still has not made the decision to end the marriage. She expected him to change his mind, but the other party did not get his wish.
In 2018, it was revealed that Gao Shengyuan seemed to have a troubled relationship with a Singaporean woman, Zhou Xun was emotionally broken when she saw the news, and she immediately contacted Gao Shengyuan on her mobile phone to ask about the situation.
originally thought that he would be comforted by the other party, but the other party just said lightly: "They talk nonsense, we are just friends".
Speaking of which, it doesn't matter whether there is cheating or not, the most important thing is that the relationship between the two has disappeared.
After finding out the truth, Zhou Xun made the decision to give up this marriage that had long existed in name.
However, problems arise. When she got married, Zhou Xun's friend reminded her to do property notarization, but she didn't pay attention to it. Who knew that in the end, he fell into a situation where he struggled to distribute his property.
Finally, in 2020, their divorce was completed.
* In a subsequent interview, he showed a strong interest in Zhou Xun's failed marriage, and Zhou Xun responded with only eight words: I have a clear conscience and no regrets.
After Zhou Xun's divorce, she still continued to make breakthroughs in her career, she starred in a series of highly regarded film works one after another, and became a resident guest of many variety shows, enriching her life with work.
The most gratifying thing in 2021 is that Zhou Xun's mood has changed again, and she has crossed paths with a guitarist who is 13 years younger than herself.
When everyone learned that Zhou Xun's new boyfriend was a singer with an ordinary appearance and career, they made all kinds of unfavorable voices, but Zhou Xun was still the "Zhou Gongzi" with his own ideas.
She expressed to the other party: we are spiritual partners, and nothing else.
Despite the hurt, Zhou Xun still has sincerity in her heart, and she still treats her new acquaintances with sincerity.
Gao Shengyuan's life is full of hypocrisy and cover-up, compared to Zhou Xun, who is more free and honest.
He was a girl at the beginning of last year, and the accompanying text was full of ambiguity. So many people began to ridicule him for having a new relationship, but he denied this statement and insisted that they were just friends.
The way Chinese Americans make friends is really open, which is admirable.
In fact, Gao Sheng has been photographed in intimate relationships with different women far more than this time, and his fun-loving nature has long been deeply rooted in the hearts of the people.
His career doesn't seem to have anything to boast about, and if he wants to catch up with Zhou Xun, I'm afraid it will be impossible for him in this life. But according to the sarcasm of netizens, a lot of money was shared in the divorce at the beginning, and it should be very comfortable.
Many people long to find a confidant who really understands them in their lives, but there are very few people who can be so lucky.
In a relationship, be vigilant whenever and wherever you are, and don't let yourself be left with any regrets!