The scene of Wen Bixia celebrating Christmas with her adopted son He Guolun and his family shows that her life is full of warmth and leaves an enviable impression. As a female star, Wen Bixia and Zhou Haimei have similarities in starting point and age.
Although Wen Bixia's family is not wealthy and she also faces pressure to support her family when she enters the entertainment industry, her marriage has brought wealth and made her one of the wealthy classes in Hong Kong, with luxury homes and celebrity neighbors in the entertainment industry, such as Jackie Chan. In contrast, Zhou Haimei is relatively backward in terms of marriage and wealth. This may indicate that for women, marriage can sometimes be a way to earn a living, or even a good option.
Although Wen Bixia herself was not short of money, because she was unable to have children, she chose to adopt a boy, He Guolun. However, Wen Bixia still shows strong maternal love. However, what is surprising is that Wen Bixia's appearance is not so sunny, and even somewhat similar to Yu Chengqing's son, which looks a little feminine.
Let's take a closer look at He Guolun's not-so-sunny state, perhaps as a mother, she shouldn't let boys get along with women all the time. First of all, He Guolun is a warm man, and he does not shy away from hugging his mother and other female elders in the family. He was very lucky, because he was adopted by Wen Bixia and He Zuguang, otherwise he would probably be an abandoned child or an orphan.
And because of his adoption, He Guolun suddenly became the second generation of stars and the second generation of rich, and his starting point in life is very high. Perhaps because he was aware of his adopted status, He Guolun behaved very docile in his daily life. Most boys studying abroad are usually different from men and women, or are less willing to be intimate with their female elders.
However, when Wen Bixia celebrated Christmas with her family and took photos, He Guolun did not shy away from hugging his mother and other elders of the opposite sex, showing the image of a warm man. However, because he is too gentle, his behavior does not feel like the behavior of an energetic boy. What a mother needs is the company and care of a man, not raising a son who will always depend on her.
He Guolun's behavior is a little sissy, and his cheek raiser and half-squatting posture lack masculinity. Maybe he looked a little evil when he held his cheeks and looked at the camera during the group photo, or showed some femininity. However, if you look closely at Ho Kwok Lun's appearance, he has a big nose and deep and beautiful eyes, as well as a solid facial contour, which does not look like a woman.
In the middle of the squat, he showed a girl-like feminine figure and lacked masculinity. It stands to reason that the children of wealthy families should receive etiquette training, or know how to behave and behave from an early age, and show a gentlemanly demeanor. However, for the time being, we can't see a masculine upbringing from He Guolun. He Guolun grew up more in the company of his mother, and his mother Wen Bixia seemed busier and spent less time with her son.
However, observing He Guolun's growth, it can be found that he is not lacking in material things. Whenever He Zuguang and Wen Bixia's family went out to play, they would bring their son, and what they ate, their son would also eat, and they didn't particularly shy away from their son, or make their son feel unpopular.
However, because He Zuguang is a wealthy businessman and has his own career, while Wen Bixia is an artist, her working hours are relatively free, so when He Guolun grew up, he was more accompanied by his mother. Wen Bixia is another attractive woman, perhaps invisibly letting her son not see himself as a boy, but as a girl, closer to his mother.
Otherwise, boys get close to their mothers after the age of 14, and many boys will feel ashamed and find it difficult to do so. It can only be said that a woman becomes a mother herself, and when she reaches a certain age, she should not always hug her son, which will affect the child's psychology and health. In general, I hope He Guolun just hasn't shown his masculine temperament for the time being.