Some people look very bad-tempered and very irritable, but in fact, this kind of talent is the easiest to handle, because they don't have a city government, and their joys, sorrows, and sorrows are all on their faces, and others can see what emotions they have. Therefore, in the eyes of others, they are the most soft-hearted, and at the same time, they are easy to grasp, because they easily trust others. As long as others treat them a little better, they will dig out their hearts and lungs to others, and tell all secrets.
It is because they trust others so easily, if they meet a good person, it is fine, but if they meet people with different hearts and ulterior motives, then they will fall into trouble. However, most of the time, they are sold without knowing it, and they are still counting the money for others in a hurry!
Only when they encounter a lot of walls and suffer a lot of losses, will they suffer losses and grow wiser, and slowly begin to trust others less easily. I finally understood this truth: you can't have the heart to harm others, and you can't have the heart to prevent people. At all times, don't trust others too much, and know how to leave a way back for yourself. It doesn't matter who it is.
It's not that they don't trust people. But they don't believe in human nature, and they don't dare to test human nature with the mentality of gambling, and the result will definitely be lost.
They are too easy to trust others, and always feel that everyone they meet may be helpful and helpful to them, so they become unable to let go when dealing with them, and there is a sense of humility as if asking for others.
However, it is very difficult for the weak to meet people who are willing to help them, that is to say, it is difficult to meet noble people, so how can there be so many people who are willing to help themselves?In this case, why should you always be submissive, with a weak heart and no confidence.
They always trust others more than they believe in themselves. Every time I see someone, I have to say my request to them again, for fear that if I don't remind others, others will forget and lose an opportunity. However, what they do is not effective, it only makes others turn away from them, and they always overestimate others, thinking that they can do anything.
In fact, it is better to seek others than to seek yourself. Instead of asking for people when you meet them, and making yourself seem to be very smart, very good at begging for people, and having a very thick face, it is better to ask for yourself and be self-reliant. People who do not give up on themselves and rely on themselves are more able to gain the respect and admiration of others.
The reason why they express their demands when they meet people is that they lack the proper sense of boundaries and do not know it, but they are still complacent, feeling that they are thick-skinned and know how to ask for help. However, the way they look is tantamount to telling others that I am a weak person, that I am waiting to be saved, to be pulled, and that all people are the ones I turn to for help. What they don't know is that no one will be willing to contribute money or effort to help the weak, because everyone has their own things to face, and no one wants to do things without benefits and benefits, and they are afraid of thanklessness.
Therefore, the sign of a strong person is that he no longer trusts anyone, it is better to ask for others than to ask for himself, do not beat other people's ideas at every turn, and want others to help him solve some problems. Don't forget, no one is superhuman, not everyone has the ability to solve problems. But they ignore this, ignore it, and only care about their own demands, hoping that others will share and understand. It's equivalent to a childish and ignorant child, who wants to rely on everyone when he sees it.
It is better to ask for others than for yourself, stop trusting others so easily, and don't pin your hopes and expectations on others. God helps the self-helpers, too.