Poverty is not terrible, it is the poor mindset that is terrible.
If a middle-aged woman lives in poverty for a long time, she may develop some bad habits that will make her life harder and harder.
A middle-aged woman is used to being poor, and she will have these 3 bad habits, I hope you don't have them
1.Keen to buy and buy, ignoring small money.
Women who are used to being poor tend to have a psychology that satisfies their vanity and self-esteem by shopping.
They believe that only by having more material things can they hold their heads up in front of others.
They will be keen to buy even things that they don't need. This concept of consumption will make them unconsciously spend a lot of money and ignore the small money in life.
Xiaoling is a typical poor woman, her monthly salary is not high, but she always likes to buy some brand-name cosmetics, clothes, etc.
Once, she took a fancy to a brand-name bag, **as high as 5,000 yuan.
Although she knew that this ** was a bit of a burden for her, she still did not hesitate to swipe her credit card to buy it.
As a result, she struggled to make ends meet for the next few months, even borrowing money to get by.
If she could spend rationally and use the money in more meaningful ways, her life might be much better.
2.I'm embarrassed to talk about money and stay away.
Women who are used to being poor often find it humiliating to talk about money, and they are afraid that others will know about their poverty.
They try to avoid talking about money, and even choose to avoid some money-related issues.
This mindset can cost them a lot of opportunities in life and can affect their relationships.
Xiaofang is a middle-aged woman whose husband owes a lot of debt because of a failed business.
Although Xiaofang was very anxious, she didn't dare to talk about money with relatives and friends, for fear of being looked down upon.
As a result, she was helpless in the face of debt problems and could only watch her husband step by step into the abyss.
If she can bravely face the reality and ask for help, her family may still be saved.
3.Don't dare to take a step forward, get used to running away.
Women who are used to being poor tend to have a negative mentality, that is, they are afraid of failure and fear of taking responsibility.
They are afraid that if they try something new, they will risk failure;Fear that once you take responsibility, you have to put in more effort.
They will choose to escape from reality, preferring to settle for the status quo rather than try to change their lives.
Xiaoli is a middle-aged woman who has been working in a public institution for more than ten years.
Although she has a stable job, her income is not high.
Her friend invited her to start a business together, saying that there was a good project.
Xiaoli actually wanted to try it in her heart, but she was afraid of failure and worried that she would not be able to do the new job.
In the end, she chose to give up this opportunity and continue to live an ordinary life.
If she can be brave enough to take this step, maybe she will have a fresh start in her life.
Women who are used to being poor tend to develop bad habits that can make their lives harder and harder.
The first thing they need to do to get out of poverty is to change their mindset and get rid of these bad habits.
Only in this way can they truly get out of their predicament and live a happy and fulfilling life.