We all aspire to be able to live a true self, but in this complex world, how do we preserve our principles and dignity in the midst of countless challenges and challenges?
Fu Zhao once said, "If you are angry, you will be happy or not, and you can nourish your heart."If you don't make friends with the vulgar, you can't get into the evil party, you can stand up; Small profits are not disputed, small anger is not made, and you can be with the public. ”
Only by knowing how to control one's emotions and not letting them influence one's behavior can one achieve peace and stability in the soul.
Only by sticking to one's own beliefs and principles, refusing to compromise and complicity, can one be invincible.
Only by looking down on small profits and small anger, and not letting trivial matters interfere and influence, can we distinguish ourselves from those mediocre people and win the respect and recognition of everyone.
Let's use Fu Zhao's teachings to choose a brighter and more upward path of life.
Get rid of all unnecessary distractions and negative emotions and live your true self.
01 If you are angry, you can nourish your heart
There are many things going on every day of life, some joys and sorrows, some moving, and some dull.
Everyone has their own emotional gains, as well as their own sorrows and pains.
And all of this requires us to have the right attitude to face it.
When we are faced with frustration, pain, or disappointment, don't get caught up in mood swings, don't be overly tired or depressed.
Don't let success and excitement blind us, but let us see and experience more wisely.
Being able to control our emotions effectively will allow us to understand the truth of everything and face the setbacks and tribulations of life calmly.
Let's let go of the shackles of emotions and learn to return to the depths of our hearts to comprehend the beautiful things that have long been integrated into our emotions.
02 If you don't make friends with the vulgar and the evil party, you can stand up
Sometimes there will be a lot of obstacles and ** on the road of life, which makes people unable to start and lose their sense of direction.
But only by being down-to-earth, establishing one's own beliefs and principles, and refusing to compromise and collude with others.
In order to be able to shine their charm in the face of difficulties and obstacles.
If we rise and fall too deeply in the world, we will lose ourselves and we will not be able to help ourselves.
And on our own bottom line, we must have some persistence and perseverance, like a mountain, standing still!
In this process, I found like-minded people to meet new challenges in life.
Recognize that there is no conformist life, and there is no need to rush to try to adapt to the popular lifestyle, nor do you have to cater to the world.
Only by following your own path and doing what you love can you truly be invincible.
So as to live your own style and become a winner in the spiritual world!
03 Small profits are not disputed, small anger is not made, and you can be with everyone
In life, small competing interests are often the trigger for our emotions to lose control, and small resentments are often the factor that causes the breakdown of our family and friend relationships.
Although petty profits and petty anger are hard to avoid, we should know how to control our emotions, handle any trivial matters rationally, and maintain a quiet and optimistic attitude.
Entangled in a paper contract, maybe it only takes one time to let go and make everyone around you want to approach.
The more out of control our emotions are, the farther and farther our happy smiles will be from us.
Enjoy the beauty of slowing down and thinking quietly in life, and don't fight for small profits and don't get angry.
Enjoy the sincere dedication from the friends around us, so that we can achieve each other in a mutually beneficial community.
In this way, we can get along with others in harmony and become a better version of ourselves.
04 Write at the end
Fu Zhao's words are easy to understand, but there is great wisdom behind them.
In the face of all kinds of trials in life, no one can be completely unangry and sad.
Napoleon once said, "A man who can control his emotions is greater than a general who can take a city." ”
In interpersonal communication, maintaining sincerity, adhering to principles, and maintaining a tolerant and humble attitude can also achieve more beautiful interpersonal relationships.
More importantly, small profits are indisputable, and small anger is not made, so that we have more time and energy to pursue the real goal in our hearts, achieve ourselves, and realize the value of life.
Let's follow the light of Fu Zhao's wisdom and be a person who knows how to control emotions, and become a person who cultivates himself and works together to achieve his true self.
The road is long, let us shoulder the heavy responsibility of the future, with wisdom and courage as the horse, let's move forward!