When we were young, love was a romantic thing, the innocent girl was deeply loved by boys, her smile and every move touched the boy's heart, it was really not seen for a day, such as every three autumns, for Yi to make people haggard.
The boyfriend can't give up his thoughts about the girl, and he thinks about it for a long time, and wants to embrace the beauty as soon as possible. Take the initiative to pursue a girl, however, what if you are too active without principle?
Being too active will make the girl feel uncomfortable, feelings need to be cultivated, not overnight, nothing can be achieved overnight.
For a boyfriend who is too active, first of all, communicate more and analyze what the boyfriend really values, whether it is himself or something other than himself.
In modern love stories, love that is too active is often not cherished, and people will feel that what is not easy to get is the best.
In the early stage of love, too active will expose your own needs, your love will seem very jerky, too direct, subtle and tactful, and the long-term love will stand the test of time and the polishing of the years.
For the pursuit of a boyfriend who is too active, the first thing to distinguish is the boy's love and attachment to himself, whether it is emotional or physical, and it is easier to accept emotional attraction and love.
If the boy is very active in talking and does not have too intimate behaviors and actions, do not pay too much attention to it, this indicates that he is willing to be with you, if it is too active in physical contact, such as hugging and other behaviors, if it is early in the relationship, you should be cautious.
And for the boyfriend who attaches too much importance to his own physiological needs and is difficult to restrain his emotions rationally, he should stay away, and love that is too active is cheap.
Girls, first of all, you must understand your boyfriend's character and understand the reasons why he is too active, only a man who can restrain his emotions is a good man worthy of love.
Communicate with him honestly, let him really understand your true thoughts and his own expectations, and hope that he will respect you and fall in love according to your wishes and frequency.
If you hope that both parties can make achievements in their careers, put the focus of their lives on their careers, and then talk about their feelings, you have to tell your boyfriend what you really think, let him respond to you positively, work hard to improve himself, let him do according to your ideas and requirements, be a mature and wise man, and have a bumper harvest in career and love.
Establish your own personal boundaries and personal boundaries, tell your boyfriend what is feasible and what is absolutely unacceptable to him, tell him that you want to have more time and space for yourself, and hope that he can respect your wishes and requirements, so that he can clearly know your needs, understand your true wishes, and respect your choices and requirements.
When your boyfriend can't accept and adapt to your behavior, you should inform and give feedback to him in time, so that he will not be bored and misunderstood by you because of misunderstanding or incomprehension, tell him your true feelings, and ask her to adjust her behavior, but also show your understanding and respect for him, so that he can better understand your needs.
Excellent and beautiful girls often have many suitors, and the initiative of boyfriends is also natural, after all, in love life, boys should also take the initiative, but they should also stop in moderation, and avoid blindly giving too much.
For too active love is often not valued, in love girls are more admired than simply like themselves, for what they like and they also like themselves, is a kind of luck, that is, the so-called meeting the right person at the right time, is a kind of fate.
Only true love will stand the test of time, cherish your boyfriend who is good to yourself and love yourself, and may there be lovers in the world who will eventually become married.
May your love come to the end, get along, grow old together, make a promise, and achieve eternal scenery in the plain years!