The four major festive events in life are the title of the gold list, the flower candle in the cave house, the old acquaintance in another country, and the sweet rain after a long drought. And marriage, is a major joy in life, there is a rural old yellow calendar network proverb, "into the person into the wealth", the bride married into the family, the family will add a mouthful of people, which means that the future money will be more abundant.
In rural areas, there are many customs of marriage, and it is hoped that after marriage, the husband and wife can work together to live in harmony and the family will be more prosperous. Today, we will talk about the custom of making beds in the countryside. Generally speaking, on the first day of marriage, it is necessary to arrange to make the bed, and it is necessary to find a well-prepared person, that is, a noble woman who has both children, is intelligent and wise, has a good life, and has good looks to make the bed.
Before making the bed, this noblewoman needs to dress up, dress neatly, groom brightly, be full of energy, and have a loud voice. The process of making the bed is very exquisite, and you can know its charm by looking at this bed-making song:
Come into the house to brighten up, and I will make the bed for the newlyweds! One shop for mandarin ducks playing in the water, two shops for dragons and phoenixes to be auspicious, three shops for fish and water acacia, four shops for long love, five shops for early birth of noble sons, six shops for children and grandchildren, seven shops for a hundred years, eight shops for a long time, nine shops for family harmony, ten spectrum of brilliant future! ”
New blankets, eiderdown quilts, a small couple sleeping together, tomorrow will give birth to a couple, a man and a woman will be born together, and a pair of college students will be born. Make the bed so well, a pair of champions is indispensable! Make the bed so completely, glory and wealth for thousands of years!
After the bed-making song is finished, the custom in some places is that the little uncle or the eldest brother comes to roll the bed, and in some places, the little nephew and the little boy can roll on the bed, which means that the bride will give birth to a boy. But now men and women are equal, and boys and girls are the same.
Subsequently, use red dates to put the word "early", peanuts to put the word "sheng", longan to put a word "expensive", and use melon seeds to put a "child" word. These old yellow calendar words should be placed larger, meaning that the bride will give birth to a noble son early. Such a good bed-making song, save it, and your child will definitely be able to use it when she gets married!