In the history of mankind, we need to remember many things, such as the trauma, humiliation and suffering that the Chinese nation has suffered. The same is true for people, in the process of growing up and suffering, there are always many things to remember, so that we can better summarize the past and face the future. However, everything has a degree, and if you blindly recall, it will not work. At the end of the day, we also need to learn to forget. It's like climbing a mountain, if you keep picking up those craggy rocks and carrying them on your back, then no matter how strong you are, you will eventually feel out of breath. Life is like reaching the top, and a truly intelligent person will not carry all the stones on his back, but will give it up appropriately. In the final analysis, human desire is unlimited, and human power is limited, so we can continue to learn to make trade-offs in order to do our best with limited strength. Therefore, the wise man will always forget the sufferings of the past. Only in this way can they not be crushed by grief and continue to move forward.
Many people have a deep fear in their hearts, either the unforgettable memories of the tragic past or the fear of the unknown......Whatever the reason, these fears can become a burden on life and prevent people from traveling lightly. In fact, once something happens, it can't be changed, and the only thing we can do is try to make it up, or muster up the courage to start all over again. In the life path of the strong, these ups and downs and setbacks are like a gas station, helping them to sum up their experiences and lessons and become wiser. For the weak, these sufferings are like insurmountable obstacles, forever in their hearts. As everyone knows, if you blindly immerse yourself in an atmosphere of sadness and don't know how to extricate yourself, you will only miss out on more opportunities and opportunities. It is also because of the weight of moving forward, which leads to more ups and downs and setbacks in the future. In that case, why not make it easier for yourself!Just forget it properly, and you can move forward with ease.
Ever since experiencing the pain of losing her loved ones and almost losing her life in Tangshan Da**, Erin has been living in deep fear. Although ** found her a good family, and her adoptive parents loved her very much, she always had palpitations and often woke up crying in the middle of the night. In order to help Erin get out of the shadow of suffering, the adoptive parents tried many ways, but to no avail. In this way, Erin finished college and started working with trepidation. She always has a sad face, and there are infinite thoughts hidden in her eyes.
A few years after graduating, Erin fell in love. Her boyfriend is a very sunny big boy, and whenever he sees Erin's sad appearance, he is always distressed. Like her adoptive parents, her boyfriend also wants to help Erin get out of the shadow of **. After all, more than ten years have passed, and it should be forgotten. One weekend, her boyfriend took Erin to climb a mountain. It's a very steep mountain, and a lot of the time you have to use your hands and feet. Erin climbed halfway up the mountain and looked up at the top of the mountain, couldn't help but shiver, and said, "I don't want to die for this life, and I will lose my life here today!."The boyfriend encouraged Erin: "The mountain looks steep, but it's actually not that steep." As long as you keep your eyes on your feet and climb up with all your might, you will soon reach the top of the mountain. Erin was still hesitant, and her boyfriend continued to encourage her: "Don't worry, you are in the front, I am in the back, I am your stepping stone." Seeing her boyfriend's unwavering eyes, Erin only continued to climb up with her scalp. More than an hour later, Erin climbed to the top of the mountain, out of breath. Seeing her smile with relief, her boyfriend took the opportunity to say, "Honey, I think there are some things you should learn to forget." It's like climbing a mountain, if you carry a heavy load on your back, it's hard to get to the top smoothly. Forgetting, on the other hand, makes it easier for you on the road of life. Forgetting, not betrayal, but for the sake of a loved one to live better, I think this is also their wish, what do you say?Erin stood against the mountain wind, letting her hair ruffle in the wind, and fell into deep thought: yes, the dead are gone, and the living are like this. If my parents are still here, I must not want to see her so unhappy after all the hard work she has grown up!Since then, Erin is like a different person, she is no longer the survivor of the Tangshan **, but a happy girl who strives to live a wonderful life for herself, for her parents, and for her adoptive parents!
In this case, Erin was physically and psychologically traumatized because she lost her biological parents in ** and was later adopted by her adoptive parents, and she was always immersed in grief and couldn't extricate herself. Fortunately, she met a positive and optimistic boyfriend, realized that everything would eventually pass, and she should work harder for all her loved ones. So, Erin became positive and optimistic, and she was no longer depressed. Presumably on the road of life in the future, she will also be able to travel lightly and move forward bravely.
If people don't learn to forget, they will eventually be overwhelmed by heavy memories. Although history cannot be forgotten, it must be forgotten. Life is like a journey, if you carry too much luggage, it will inevitably affect the speed of travel. Only by traveling lightly can you improve efficiency and walk lightly.