In a society with fierce competition and abundant talents, if a person wants to gain a foothold in society, gain a firm foothold, and get into the mix, it is not by temporary luck, let alone by a mouth, that can be easily done. You will find that people who have the ability to do things, not only have the ability to do things, but also have a strong sense of action, they are more proficient in the way of dealing with the world, understand the importance of character, behave and do things, and always put morality first. Today we will take a look at the great principles of the I Ching!
Low-key is a philosophy of achieving great things, and it is a kind of cultivation!
If a person keeps showing off too much, too ostentatious, even if no one around you is better than you, you keep showing off, which will only lead to other people gradually alienating you. The more incompetent a man is, the more conceited he is, feeling that he knows everything and can do anything.
And a person who really has the ability to know the size of the world, is always low-key and humble, always humble in doing things, never rests on his laurels, and always continues to learn Xi and improve himself.
As the saying goes, ripe wheat bends over. The more sharp a person is, the more arrogant and conceited he will become, the more domineering he will become, he will be prone to make fatal mistakes, and he will easily make others think of vigilance, disgust and destruction.
Rhythm Rules!
This sentence in the I Ching touched me deeply: people's hearts are not satisfied, and they often encounter disasters and sorrows. If a person is insatiable, he will be consumed by desire. Inflated desires make people never satisfied, and this is the source of all the suffering in life. If a person cannot control his desires, then the calamity will be like a flood that cannot be stopped.
In modern society, all kinds of ** are dazzling, and a person who does not know moderation will only get lost in the forest of desire. But many people are often negligent, and no moderation becomes a bad thing, and how many people say that they are busy every day, but they are actually blindly busy. The tiredness you feel is actually the emptiness in your heart that is eating you up. In the process of satisfying desires, if he does not know how to control his desires, then he will become a source of suffering.
Life should be like this, the higher the realm, the more you know how to be temperate. Only by knowing contentment can we be truly rich. The less desire, the simpler life and the more peace of mind.
In interpersonal communication, knowing how to pretend to be stupid is emotional intelligence and cultivation!
A person who always tells the truth inevitably seems too mean. In fact, many times, knowing and not saying it is the sublimation of your personality charm. Being kind and silently pretending to be stupid is your best cultivation.
Dealing with people, dealing with people, should have a generous attitude towards people, once you encounter something, you must have an attitude of giving a step, this is the real smart person, because let a step is equivalent to leaving room for further in the future;When appropriate, learn to play dumb and take care of the innocuous vanity or self-esteem of others. Knowing without asking is a kind of wisdom, seeing through but not saying it thoroughly, it is a kind of realm, and those who know how to pretend to be stupid are smart people.
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