"** music" quietly rises in universities, students enjoy it, and parents are kept in the dark
University is not the end, but a new beginning in life. The students have finished the college entrance examination and stepped into a new stage of study.
After more than ten years of hard study, in order to enter the ideal university, receive higher education to improve personal quality. In today's Internet era, people can easily complete many things in their lives through the Internet, such as business payment and daily communication.
However, there are pros and cons, and adults have strong self-control and are able to use mobile phones reasonably. On the contrary, because students are not mentally mature and difficult to effectively self-regulate, they need to be supervised by teachers and parents.
For the first time, I have left home to study in a different place, no longer supervised and nagged by my parents, and have plenty of time to pursue my interests. However, if you are unable to manage yourself and get lost in the virtual world of the Internet for a long time, it will inevitably lead to the abandonment of your studies and eventually face the dilemma of losing your job after graduation.
The term "fun" is quietly popular on college campuses, and many college students fall into it, thinking that they are just having fun. College students are basically "out of work" to get their education, get rid of financial pressure, and their living expenses and tuition fees are provided by their parents, which tends to develop lazy and perfunctory attitudes. Some netizens jokingly called this state "** music".
*"Le" originally referred to newborn babies who are carefree and can feel happy just by sucking on a bottle. In college students, it refers to those who are addicted to the Internet and electronic gadgets, who stay in their dormitories all day, are unusually quiet, and have no interest in anything related to their studies.
In universities, even professional courses are no exception, and there is a phenomenon of skipping classes. Some students either ask their roommates to answer on their behalf, or hide in their dorms to play games or watch dramas, or make up sick leave to ask for leave.
Even if I occasionally appear in class, I don't bother to take notes, but I take a picture of the teacher's board book and save it to my mobile phone, planning to Xi it again after class, but the result is often forgotten altogether. As time goes on, more and more classes are missed, which eventually leads to the dilemma of not being able to graduate.
Students are intoxicated by "** fun", while parents have been kept in the dark, mistakenly believing that their children are Xi and self-motivated in school. Once I learned the truth, I felt very helpless.
The four years of college pass in a hurry, and if students cannot make full use of the opportunities to study and Xi improve their abilities, future employment and development will become a major problem. Therefore, it is important to stay away from "fun", study hard and Xi, and actively participate in various activities organized by the school.
So, what measures should college students take to quit "** fun"?First of all, you need to focus more on your studies and spend less time using electronic devices. It is meaningless to indulge in games and dramas for a long time, it will only pollute the spirit and affect the normal Xi and rhythm of life. Therefore, it is imperative to get rid of "** music".
We must have a correct attitude, face up to the problems we are facing, and don't have a fluke mentality, otherwise it will only make matters worse. It may be difficult to completely quit electronic products, so it is recommended that students gradually reduce the time they spend using electronic products every day and replace them with reading books.
It is essential to have a system of rewards and punishments tailored to individual circumstances. Set clear goals and achieve the big goals by working hard to achieve them one by one. You can set a reward for each small goal you complete, and if you fail to complete it, you will need to accept a corresponding penalty.
In order to better implement this system of rewards and punishments, parents can be asked to supervise. As the people who know their children best, parents are the ones who most expect their children to have a bright future. For students with poor self-discipline, seeking parental supervision can be more effective.
Finally, it should be emphasized that college students should not choose to "lie flat", because there is still a lot of knowledge to be learned Xi and many abilities to be improved. If you fall into the "** happiness", you will only succeed in the end.
Today's topic: What other ways do you think college students can enjoy ** fun?Welcome to leave a message in the comment area.